i am dating this girl right now and we have been for about two years but we took a break and just got back together but just a couple weeks ago (when we werent together) she liked this other guy and messed around with him and shes done these things before so should i try again with her or end it before anything gets started again
2006-09-23 06:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep it moveing buddy
2006-09-23 06:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by PETE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depnds why you had a break in the first place. I have always found in the past that it is difficult to go back after a break. You obviously had a break for a reason, has that reason resolved itself?
I have rule for myself to never go back out with people when we have broken up. As the reasons for breaking up are still there, nothing has changed and it is difficult to forget anything they may have done with someone else when you are apart. Thats not to say that it cant work as it has done with other people. It seems you may have trouble trusting your girlfriend especially if she has done something in the past. I think if your finding it hard to trust her it may be best to end it before it goes any further as its difficult to try and rebuild that trust, often it will cause so many problems that you end up hating the person and never want to see them again. Its only you who can decide if its worth fighting for.
2006-09-23 13:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by CHIMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two should talk and find out exactly where you two stand with each other ... you didn't say if you had met anyone while you two were apart but just to be fair between the two of you I suggest that you all talk and see if you both want to or see a future together if not then move on. but if you all decide to stay together then you both need to make it clear that being faithfull will be one of the main things in the relationship.
2006-09-23 13:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatefancier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve a break today..so make one and set yourself free of this controlling young gal..she needs space to experiment and learn about life...so do you..so take it and split. Why in the world are you worried about this? There are lots of good fish in the sea, so go fishing. She certainly has, and will again. Stop being a schmuck and a wimp. What happened to self respect? You have lost yours along the way. So go find it along with a new girl friend.
2006-09-23 13:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if you need to take a break from each other - then that should be your first warning sign!!
You said she messed around while on break, but you never said anything about you!
If I were you, I'd have found someone new a long time ago!!
Good Luck, Bra!
Aloha!!
2006-09-23 13:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer.But I will tell you a relationship with trust issues is not pleasant.
2006-09-23 13:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her-she's not ready for a committments
2006-09-23 13:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel is in your heart. if you are questioning it right now, i would say move on.
2006-09-23 13:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by SAChicky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!
2006-09-23 13:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋