Why do women fake orgasims? Why can't you just come out and tell us guys that you havn't orgasimed yet or that you have a problem orgasiming when you are with us? We want you to be able to orgasim, so what not let us try?
2006-09-23 06:47:17 · 8 answers · asked by Novotny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're not in the mood then why have sex? If you want it to end why don't you just tell us? It doesn't feel good that I have climaxed and my partner didn't. If it is me, then why are you with us if we can't please you. I can't stand the feeling of knowing that I can't please my woman. This was just a general question because I see a lot of women in Yahoo talking about how they fake their orgasims.
2006-09-23 07:11:33 · update #1
They do this for many reasons.....I've faked it twice myself believe it or not, for the specific reason that I was discovering, at that time right then that it was a mistake being with them (no chemistry there for me at all....not in love....having sex for the wrong reasons), and didn't want to hurt their feelings. Women do this also.
They also do it because they are being considerate and trying to let you think you pleased them, and allowed you to receive pleasure yourself (would you rather they be selfish and tell you to buzz off?..............I didn't think so). They do it because some men are idiots and almost force themselves on their women, and this turns them off and they can't relax and settle down, and they know it will be over faster if they pretend everything is great and good and all that kind of thing.
I'm sure there are other reasons I did not mention, but maybe these reasons will shed some light on this for you just the same.
I hope it helps.
2006-09-23 07:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men can't handle the honest truth
It does everyone a favour / sometimes.
When I've been honest with a man he asks me non stop "why" what's wrong... Was it me! It's pathetic n annoying not to mention it appears needy
2014-12-23 00:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A females will best fake an orgasm if she has to. If you happen to might provide her an actual orgasm i might doubt she'd fake it. Your poor attitude appears to come back from the truth that there are other ways in which you can't please a ladies as good. However no, it's not continually their fault.
2016-08-09 15:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't fake orgasms, I do just say I can't or didn't. But most women just get tired of trying and want it to be over and if they climax then their partner will, so whatever makes it end works.
2006-09-23 06:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple some guys just don't know what there doing all they care about them selves. So they fake it to stop the hole thing.
Guys read learn what it takes to make a woman feel good.
2006-09-23 07:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because sometimes it's just not possible. we're either not in the mood or we're trying too hard, etc. our bodies are more complex than yours. and we fake it so you'll stop...
2006-09-23 06:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
we don't want our partner to think something is wrong with us.
2006-09-23 06:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by jldjldjldjldjldjldjldjldjldjldjl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause we don't want to hurt ya'll sobby boys feelings.
2006-09-23 06:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋