How a girl will know that guy who is having sex with her(guy) never had any inter course before? for a girl there is hymen and it will bleed during first sex how we will know he is virgin or not?plz tell me
2006-09-23 06:36:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
wow you sound so young. There's no way to know if either a guy or a girl is a virgin. A girl doesn't always bleed and the hymen can be broken long before she has sex for the first time. The hymen being intact isn't an indicator of virginity. Simple answer. There's no way to tell. You just have to communicate. From your other question though it seems like he has experience. It's a shame that you have to ask these questions. Especially after you had sex. You should've talked to him before if you're so concerned about it. And be careful about the advice that you get on answers! A lot of the people here are young like you.
2006-09-23 07:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ours didn't ask, but if he does, be honest. You don't want someone playing such an important role in your wedding if he's going to judge you based on not being a virgin at your wedding. It's VERY important that you and your fiance feel completely comfortable with the officiant and vice versa. My guess is that he won't ask, though. It's pretty unrealistic to expect people to wait this day and age. Not many people do. My husband and I lived together for 4 years before we got married, so everyone knew we weren't virgins, and no one had a problem with it. You should definitely be able to find an understanding pastor. If the first one has a problem with it, move on to another choice.
2016-03-27 04:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're getting married, then ask him. i was a virgin when I met my wife. the sex was the best 1 minute of my life, no joke. every guys first time is pitiful, we start and finish in the same minute, and say stupid shitfor days after words. if he makes it more than two minutes he's either not a virgin or he's comming out of the closet soon afterwords.
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sounding so young, I assume you're 16-19 at most. if he's told you "theres no need to use a rubber, I'm a virgin" run the other way fast. this is a technique every 16 year old idiot boy uses to get skins without using a rubber. DON'T EVER CHANCE IT!!!! use a condom, statistics show that one in seven 16-18 year old boys have an STD of some sort. do not become another one of these girls on here worried about aids!!!
2006-09-23 07:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Huge. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no for sure way to know except the way he acts. If he goes at it and he knows what he is doing he has had sex before. He should be nervous and takes things slow. If he does this then you know he has never had sex.
Also the hymen is not always true for women. I was a virgin when I sex with my husband for the first time and I didn't bleed at all.
2006-09-23 06:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sam468 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing that i know of that can tell if a guy has had sex before. Hopefully you can trust the guy.
2006-09-23 06:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't going to know what to do at all u will have to guide him and train him. which good be good for u than u can train him in the way that u like it. I wish mine was a virgin!!! lol
2006-09-23 06:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by lovergirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dats the thing.girls wun noe if the guy is a virgin or not.unless the guy really tell her the truth.dats how u can really find out.life's unfair.haha.
2006-09-23 06:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys have told me that when they do it for the first time they cume really quick and this guys virginity that I took did just that in out in out bust that is how you will know.
2006-09-23 08:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by MISSREBEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experence you can't tell because If they masterbate alot and are comfortable in thier own skin, then they will be better intune with what feels good.
2006-09-23 14:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by jam1577 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be quite obvious . . . trust me. There is no "physical" way of knowing, but he won't know what he is doing, and it will end quite early.
Oh yeah, he will be very nervous.
2006-09-23 06:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by littlepurpledragon77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋