Here's my problem. I have been faking orgasm for 10 years. I recently purchased a "toy". This toy makes my body tense in ways that I have never experienced. The problem is that my body doesn't know how to orgasm so I never feel any release. Any ideas how I can train my body to accept these new feelings of muscle tention and get pleasure from them?
I am a girl by the way so guys, you probably can't help, but if you think you can feel free. I'll take any advice.
2006-09-23 06:36:32 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey I have been there. Its not that you don't know how it's that your body has come to a state that it won't. You are made to orgasm we all are. It's my suggestion that where you are on your way to release state don't think about it just let your body take on the course and let things flow. Don't shy off and get nerves, just let it flow and when it does please believe it is the best release that you can ever have. Watch your body transform.
2006-09-23 07:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually u have to understand ur very own body first.
when u r in cool mind and have free time then sit naked rub ur pussy finger it, get it wet, then start it on slowest speed and rub clit, then vulva and then inner 2" part and then innner upper portion of muscles and this will orgasm u and u will enjoy. Ask any other Q on sex...........I am here.
2006-09-23 06:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to keep trying. You will find what floats your boat. Get a good instructional book - good vibrations.com is a good web site for books - toys and your questions too.
2006-09-23 06:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by justwondering 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont have a toy but this i want to know...
2006-09-23 06:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell ya, keep practicing.......
2006-09-23 06:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋