I went to a football game last night. i didnt know that my 16year old boyfriend was gona go. he had to work. but he got off early. i spent the time with him and after the game i went straight home. my dad starts yelling at me telling me im to young date anyone and that he is gona have a chaperone go with me EVERYWHERE i go! he said he trust me but just not him. my question is how bad or annoying is it to have a chaperone and should i let my dad meet my boyfriend? My boyfriend is so sweet to me and has never touched me in an unapproriate way and he never ever would. But the parents say NO HOLDING HANDS TO! are they being rediculous or am i? I really,need your help. My boyfriend is the only guy i have ever trusted and i talk to him about everything. last night at the football game he stood up for me because 5 african americans were picking on me and he came running up and jumped in front of me. See i trust him with my life Please help!My email is: fancy_barn@yahoo.com
2006-09-23 06:09:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
young boys, have wandering hands, take what your dad offers and be glad, that way you wont be pressured into doing something you are not ready for,
2006-09-23 06:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wooohoo-5 African Americans were picking on you? Yeah-your boyfriend saved your life. Who knows what could have happened to you if not for him? Why couldn't you just say 5 girls/guys were picking on you? White people don't pick on people either? Or maybe its just a life or death situation if Black people do it?...Listen to your father and let him chaperone your little naive behind everywhere-pleeeeeze!
2006-09-23 06:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father, is a very wise man. He also probably wouldn't approve of you posting your e-mail on a public site.
However, back to your dad.
You must realize, that for all your life, he has been your protector. He has watched you grow up into the young girl that your are today. Fathers take an oath as new fathers, to protect their children, from all dangers, and/or threats, foreign and domestic.
Your dad is simply looking out for you. Be glad he allows you to date period. Because my little girls won't, at least until they hit high school.
Don't flip out on your Dad, he's just doing his job.
2006-09-23 06:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur dad is right about u need a chaperon. u r 14 n u think u know about boys. i think ur dad just know how a 16 year-old boys think because he used to be one! thats y he's worried about u.
don't worry. if u think u r not comfortable with the situation, just tell ur boyfriend to ask ur father's permission to go out with u, alone. and promise ur dad to be back b4 12! (or in any time frame he tell u).
anyway, u r lucky because ur dad care and love u enough to protect u! u r so lucky!
2006-09-23 06:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by miza n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AT 14 YOU DO OT NEED TOO BE ALONE WITH A BOY YOU PROBABLY DON'T NEED A BOY FRIEND AT ALL , YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG
2006-09-23 06:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can mess up a whole date
2006-09-23 06:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Will 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋