there's a big problem that happened in my family, 2 deaths in one day! almost 6! anyway me and my brothers and sisters are going through a terrible time! if you wanna e-mail me then go ahead and i'll tell you what's wrong! But tell me one thing! Is life always this hard?
2006-09-23 06:05:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Go ahead and cry. I still cry about my mom's death 5 and a half years ago. I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-09-23 06:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by ppellet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Madison I'm sorry to hear that you are having so much trouble within your family. We don't seem to know why things happen in this life, but I can tell you that they do happen for a reason. Sometimes it sets examples to others and other times we cannot figure it out. I suggest that you, your brothers and sisters work closely together and be supportive to each other. Be grateful that you have each other and prayers do work and are answered. Prayers are answered but not necessarily the way we thought they would be.
2006-09-23 06:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by oldone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are going through such a hard time, I actually had 4 deaths of people who were either in my family or close to me, and right now my neighbors husband is getting very unhealthy and my Grandpa's time is pretty much up. I know how hard it is. It seems like when people die, it is always in pairs, that is how it has always been for me. Just realize that everything happens for a reason, and you are not alone, there are plenty of people out there going through a hard time.
2006-09-23 06:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by italianbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a lot of experience in death, but what I think you should do is turn to your religious and spiritual side of yourself. Go to your religious house to pray. Talk to someone there about it. Don't keep your pain a secret, that's just about the worst thing you can do, next to hurting someone because of your feelings.
Whether life is hard or easy depends on your pereception, your feelings, and your beliefs. It depends on what you think of as "a little bad" and "really bad." Remember, your life could be covered in darkness, but above all that there's always a little spark of light. The size of that light depends on you. I wish you all the best.
"Anyone can be negative, that's easy. But it takes effort to be positive." -- Mr. P, a special 7th grade teacher
2006-09-23 06:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by Green Emotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is just that... life, It's never been promised that it's going to be easy but all we can do is just make it for today!! Ive had some very hard battles too.... but I made it through some of the hardest times of my life just by believing that one day it wouldnt be so hard. I still struggle but it really does get better if I just live for today and know that thigs will get better one day!
2006-09-23 06:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by allison m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God..that is terrible. I just had two buddies die last week. They were young and we all thought this would never ever happen. It is very hard to deal with....you have to talk to people and just remember them as they were. Life is always unpredictable and full of change..even if you think your life is boring it always chnages. For the better or worse. Try to be happy...time heals all!! I am feeling better, it will take time..cry, talk, try to have fun, get your mind of of it by doing things you like...with friends. Best of luck...I'm sorry for your losses.
2006-09-23 06:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes its hard, sometimes its not. Life happens and everything happens for a reason. Maybe this happened to bring you and your siblings closer to each other. Maybe this happened to teach you and those around the ones who passed to appreciate life and see beauty everywhere. Perhaps it happened to teach you strength...
I'm sorry for your loss and your heartache and perhaps you don't want to hear this but I'll pray for you and your family. But, please, take something positive away from a negative experience. Make it worth it...for your sake and your families..
Blessings.....
2006-09-23 08:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by Bethie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's a highly unusual tragedy that so many deaths affected your family at once. Hopefully you can all find the strength to stick together and support each other through it.
2006-09-23 06:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is not always that hard. you know that. you sound like you are having a terrible time right now and I am sorry for your troubles.
So you have brothers and sisters, that's a good thing, to have them to share with. My brothers and sisters are my best friends now that we are grown.
2006-09-23 06:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by bttrswt1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through my mom having a massive stroke that left her unable to talk, walk, write, but her mind is still normal, I lost my job and my husband of 16 years left me for someone half our age. This was all in one year, and guess what? I am still standing up.
2006-09-23 06:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by lynddd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋