I am so unclear, but i want to set that boundary
we have gone out on 3 dates
Should i ask her where we stand
2006-09-23 05:57:59 · 13 answers · asked by Kurt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am so unclear, but i want to set that boundary
we have gone out on 3 dates
Should i ask her where we stand
on the 1st date we got very intimate
and on our 2nd date we kind of slowed it down because we were at a formal setting
shes not dating anyone
and we make eachother smile a lot
2006-09-23 06:13:15 · update #1
there is no date limit. i mean you just have to talk to her about. consider how long you have known her. how long you been talking to her an the phone. how she feels about you. when you answer those questions and you are feeling confident that you want to be her man. talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. and most important ask her what she wants.
2006-09-23 06:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by babyface_2400 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not push the issue right now...be thankful for the dates you are having and concentrate on enjoying the time with him and that he enjoys his self too...do not be in such a big hurry...it will be known later if you two will be a couple or not...i have dated this guy over 4 months and i just now know that he is to possessive for me...so just slow down....
2006-09-23 13:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out on a fourth date and say casually, well it looks like you're my girlfriend. Is that ok with you?
If she agrees then congratulations, you're a couple.
If she doesn't then ask her if she would like to get to know you a bit more before making a decision, then ask her again at date 9 or 10
2006-09-23 13:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by tspoonteddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no exact number, its different for everybody. Personally, I think 3 dates is too soon to try and 'define' your relationship. Why not instead just keep seeing each other and see where it goes.
2006-09-23 13:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What have you done on those dates?
Make sure you are on the same page.
Ya find out.
2006-09-23 13:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the couple. You could ask her where you stand.
farien3 gave a good answer.
2006-09-23 13:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a couple til you both decide to not see anyone but eachother.
2006-09-23 13:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2, a couple usually means 2.
Hehe
2006-09-23 13:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depend on you, we had 2yrs date before I ask her
2006-09-23 13:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Dutchie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do it on the first date! SLOW!
2006-09-23 13:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by lisette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋