2006-09-23 05:51:35 · 10 answers · asked by unshatteredstone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow thats a difficult question. People deal with heartbreak in different ways. Personally i belive it is so incredibly easy to have a pity party for ourselves but i think we should try be active and focus on the next thing .. ps im not saying it will make it go away but try to deal with ur sadness inaway that is beneficial to you.
2006-09-23 05:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by canadien_eh? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tear up photos etc.....you'll regret it later. If your heartache is because you've lost someone - get counselling...
If your heartache is because you've been dumped then spend the first week trying to get them back.
The second week telling yourself all the bad things about them (it will help you feel as if it was the right thing to lose them)
After week three, go to pubs and clubs and try to meet others - not necessarily to go out with but when other people show you attention it gives you more confidence to start over.
2006-09-23 05:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by tspoonteddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God to heal you and to keep you in His will.Most of the time when we get hurt,it's because we went against God's will and did our own stuff. Jesus said "The Spirit of the Lord is upon me,because He hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; He hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted,to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised, To preach the acceptable year of the Lord." So just humble yourself before the mighty hands of God and trust Him.
2006-09-23 06:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to pick up interest in something else like your job, hang-out more often especially with new friends that don't know what you are going thru. and always think highly of urself. cheers
2006-09-23 06:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by DEJOBO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget that person .may be u desreve sm1 more better loving n caring.i know its not easy but then y ruin ur life 4 an unemotional person..........all the best
2006-09-23 05:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by neha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw closer to God.
7Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about what happens to you.
1 peter 5: 7
2006-09-23 05:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Dead 2 Self 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I go get drunk. The hangover usually makes me forget about my other problems. It beats doing something illegal to your boyfriend/girlfriend to get revenge and then going to jail!!!
2006-09-23 05:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just difficult to deal with........1st most people will drown themselves with work......but again when they are alone....or when they see couples on the street they will still feel the ache........i think time is the best medicine.........but after 5yrs.....i still face with the same problem........i guess i have to live with this kind of pain until i slp in my coffin..........
2006-09-23 09:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by rachelkelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to forgive and forget...
and so TIME will do...
or fall in love again.
2006-09-23 06:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by 4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way to get over a women is to get under a new one and get sh*t faced while doing it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-23 05:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by scottb62821 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋