There's this guy in my school (the only guy I like in there) who every other girl likes. I've sent him 2 notes and he never acknowledges me. He probably doesn't know I exist. I feel like my my life is ripping apart at the seams because of him. And please don't tell me to move on because I've tried! I've tries so hard! Please Help Me.
2006-09-23 05:49:42 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's not interested, there is nothing you can do. You have to move on. It will be hard not to think about him or control your emotions when you see him, but you should find an an activity to keep you distracted. Join a school club or some other group outlet to help you move and this might help you make new friends and possibly a new guy for you.
2006-09-23 05:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...so you don't want to be told to move on...so I am not going to say that. What I am going to do, is help you move on!
First of all....has this guy EVER shown you any kind of retort to your notes. has he ever written you back, said thanks, nodded at you, made any kind of contact?
Second of all...one of your best friends has a crush on some guy at your school, she writes him notes, and stares at him, but gets no response from him. What do you tell your friend to do?
You need to step outside of yourself and look at the situation. You should know that you are getting a little overboard when you feel your life ripping apart at the seams. Is it worth it? Is it worth wasting your time on someone that is not returning your feelings? NO!!!!!!!!
It's time to come back to reality, girl! He is not the one for you, and as much as you want him to be, right now, he is not. Enjoy your life, and quit letting a boy rip your life apart at the seams! It's hard...but you can do it!
2006-09-23 05:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is time to think more of your self in another way...you have sent him 2 notes and he has not even acknowledged them...do yourself a favor and forget him...least do not write him and be friendly if the situation arises but do not force this issue any more..think more of your self now...you do not need this guy...and if he is the only guy in the school you like then work on your school work...and he may come around someday...you know i think playing hard to get will get you more results....we can not help you...you have to do this within yourself...and i know you can do it...so buck up there girl and get with it...try and go to school pretty everyday...mind your own business...work on your school work...the right guy will come along for you...take one day at a time and do not push or rush any situation...you said every other girl likes him to....well his head is probably so big it can not fit through the school doors....be different...be yourself and be fun to be around.....
2006-09-23 05:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. I would need to know some more facts to answer this question more properly, but anyway;
the thing is this:, if you two have made eye contact at least a few times, it means that he knows you, and if you sent him some notes and he knows they are from you , if he doesn´t make any step forward, he is not showing much interest; I know it sounds horrible and tough, but you would really feel better if you were more realistic; there is a great book "is he that into you" written mostly by a man, he writes for sex and the city series, and he speaks a lot about this, meaning that one should not waste our time in someone who doesn´t show interest in us.
2006-09-23 06:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by CI5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If as you say he probably doesn't know you exist, you have two choices. Either make SURE he knows you exist by talking to him, or give up on him and move on, regardless of how hard it might seem.
You DO understand that EVERYONE goes through this kind of thing, right? And that EVERYONE eventually gets over it and moves on, right? Because that's the way it actually is.
2006-09-23 05:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me say I am a guy and that I've been out of school for many years. That said, let me ask you this.
Reverse the situation. There is a guy who is interested in YOU but you don't know he exists. How do you think HE feels? Shoud HE move on?
2006-09-23 05:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by jdnmsedsacrasac1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all you can't make someone get interested in you or like you. have you tried just walking up to him and talking to him. maybe if you two are in the same class you can ask him a question about some school work and see if he answers you or not if he ignores you then there is nothing that you can do except go on and not waste your time on him. but if he talks to you then that will give you a chance to see if he can/is interested in getting to know you.
2006-09-23 05:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by chocolatefancier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him in person instead of writing notes, if you still don't get what your looking for then consider walking away! If nothing else maybe you can become good friends with the guy!
2006-09-23 05:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweety i understand what your going through. its hard to move on. but at the same time you have to learn to. i've been in the same situations and its not easy. if you've tried to get him to notice you and he hasnt responded, let it be. if God wanted yo to be together you will be with him. and if you still want to try to talk to him, don't give him notes. pull him aside and talk to him face to face. thats always better. dont jump into anything, try being his friend first. and maybe you'll seesomething brew from there.
until then stay focused and dont lose yourself in this dilemma. i hope everything works ou for the best!
2006-09-23 05:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by Dia S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?he is probably getting notes from lots of girls if everyone likes him.i know how you feel because when i was in high school there was a guy like that.when i finally talked to him it turned out he was a jerk.your life won't fall apart if he doesn't talk to you.send him another note.if he doesn't respnd to it then move on.there are plenty of other guys out there worth your attention.
2006-09-23 05:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by astrosgurl2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋