kinda makes me mad....i really like him and he really likes me but i dont like him flirting with other girls.....i dont want to dump him cause i like him so much and he is just so sweet and nice to me....and he likes me so much too....how do i tell him to stop flirting with girls??
2006-09-23 05:37:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No don't say anything make like it doesn't bother you at all. As a matter of fact next time you see him flirting just walk by with one of your girl friends and don't look and don't say a thing. He will probably stop talking and come up to you and say something stupid like didn't you see me? And you say ya but I didn't want to interrupt.
2006-09-23 05:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by robert d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax - the reason you liked him in the first place was because he has a fun, spirited, outgoing, flirtatious personality - that's not going to change. (What you see as 'flirting', he probably just sees as 'talking'). But what is important is that both of you have an understanding that there's a difference between love and flirting. Hopefully he loves you as much as you love him.
Good Luck!
2006-09-23 12:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys (like me) are just big flirts. you can't make him stop because it's part of his charm. as long as the flirting is harmless, you shouldn't have a problem... and if he has a lot of friends that are girls, it's just something you'll have to accept. jealousy is never good.
now, if his flirting leads to cheating, that's a whole different question.
2006-09-23 12:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what guys do... they have raging hormones, and they love women. Comment on other girls, like in a good way, see what his reaction is. Be like " she's hot", or "i love her hair"... something along thoes lines. Its a good (kinda tricky) way to see where he stands on other chicks. Even so though, he's flirting with them, and he's with you... let 'em have some fun, he'll appriciate you more if your cool about it.... plus it'll make the other girls jelous.... hehehehe
2006-09-23 12:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing at least you are there with him and know what he do I mean let him have his friends as long as he know how far to take it it's good and ask to meet these girls if he say no then it's more then that
2006-09-23 12:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Scooby_doo06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth and maybe he will stop flirting with other girls. if he loves you, he will find a way or at least try to stop what he's doing.
2006-09-23 12:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by duhyan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. If he doesn't stop, dump him. I know you say that you love him, but if he continues to flirt it shows that he doesn't.
2006-09-23 12:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-23 12:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy are going to be guys. They are always going to flirt but just let him know that it make you feel uncomfortable. You would appreciated if he would do it around you. If he really in to you he will understand.
2006-09-23 12:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by Chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is just part of his personality, you may just have to deal with it or leave him alone. You could let him know how you feel, but if it has no effect, then those are your choices.
2006-09-23 12:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋