And I know he likes me and I like him, but we're both too shy to do anything about it. How can I subtly let him know I like him so he knows I won't reject him? Things I could say or do. Like, I knew he liked me when he did this stroking thing on my shoulder the other night. What kind of physical contact is a classic thing for girls to do when they like a guy? I guess I'm asking for non-slutty flirting tips.
2006-09-23 05:13:34 · 10 answers · asked by LindseyLouWho 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok - one test to see if he likes you is this - however be warned this shows like/flirting not whether he will love you forever
if you are at a table together at lunch or whatever pick up something like the salt or a sachet of ketchup and play with it then put it into his half of the table or his personal space (in a subtle way like just inside what woud be his personal space) if he picks it up and plays with it he likes you if he pushes it out of his personal space hes not into you.
Other ways to show that you lije him are to kind of mirror some of his body language - like how open he is being and his posture - however don't copy him exactly or you will look a bit weird.
Stepping it up one level but not being slutty at all is to touch his forearm lightly - say if he makes a joke that you like - its friendly and intimate and not full on.
This is always the most fun stage - the flirting and the thinking and wondering ...
Good luck.
2006-09-23 05:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Bebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like aggressive girls. Just get up enough courage to tell him you like him and ask him what you guys should do about it. Let him know firsthand that you like him, and things will progress from there. Flirt with him, write him little notes, do your best to walk with him to classes or to lunch. When you guys are walking together, grab hold of his hand, put your arm around his waist, lean your head against his shoulder. rub you hand along his back. Tell him flat out that you like him, things will progress from there. AND LADIES: NEVER BE SHY TO CLAIM YOUR MAN!!! GET OUT THERE AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! Best of luck to you!
2006-09-23 12:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this guy and your sure he likes you don't be embarrassed. next time you see him you can hug him, or if you dont wanna do that in front of other ppl then you can get him alone and talk about how you feel, or just hold his hand if you get the chance and put your arm around him
2006-09-23 12:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Arabella S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a friend to ask him out for you or if you want him to be the one to ask you out then ask a friend to go up to him and ask him if he likes you and if he says yes then your friend can let him know that you like him too.
2006-09-23 12:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by randi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was just wondering if you would like to go see a movie sometime? Perferable Pirates of the Carribean!! ARRRRRRRR!!
2006-09-23 12:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by pirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wat u do is let him no that u like him and just be like give him a look letting him no that u like him and mabey oh and tell him that u like him so just stright out tell him and if he dont like u then hes not wrouthyour time or breath at all so just try 2 tell him in a sweet way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! mabey then hell ask u or have ur friend ask him if he likes u k !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! mabey theres some sings that he can like u for more info pleas be free to type me on my yahoo rh_tl_1316_love@yahoo.com
2006-09-23 12:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by sexi b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out to be his girlfriend. I'm sure you would love to be together with him.
2006-09-23 12:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do it subtly... you have to be yourself and you have to be with him alone and you have to tell him.... "I LIKE YOU... A LOT"
2006-09-23 12:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh punch him in the face, if he's a manly man.
2006-09-23 12:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell, be a $lut its the best way! haha
2006-09-23 12:15:18 · answer #10 · answered by kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋