A break from the dating world...because somehow my mind seems to be all over the place. Divorced and after I dated the 'wrong' guy all around ! Completly worse than my ex but somehow I stayed for a bit because i hated being alone. Now I realize I should clear my head. I'm feeling like I will never meet anyone...Help
2006-09-23 05:03:30 · 7 answers · asked by Tropical 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop !. Take some time away from dating / boyfriends. Give yourself some time, do what you enjoy doing for a bit. Your head will clear. The scared of being alone feeling will fade as your self confidence grows, it will grow as you prove to yourself you can function normally AND be happy without a boyfried.
Then, when your confident and happier, you will meet someone like minded. Good luck, stay up.
2006-09-23 05:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by ukmagilla1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, do take a break and clear your thoughts. You need it. Figure out what's absolutely necessary for you in a relationship, and what you absolutely wont tolerate in a relationship. You can date casually without getting too close, just be straight with the guy right from the start. Sex is usually what confuses things early on in a relationship, so put it off for a while, until you meet someone who really seems compatible for you. Don't settle for less than what you feel is right. Respect yourself and know that there is someone out there who is perfect for you. Just give it time and relax and enjoy your freedom and vacation from the stress of bad realtionship.
2006-09-23 12:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do us women always feel the need to have a man??? I was like that and I, like you took some time to actually be on my own and realised how much I can do for myself. For the first time in years I actually like myself and my life. I can do what I want, when I want. Noone to answer to and no man to have to tip toe around. Not saying that I'll end up on my own for life, but I know that if I do, I'm more than capable of coping with it. Honestly, give yourself time and you might find you're doing more than ever and you wont look back. Give yourself an initial time limit - say 6-12 months to be on your own and then start looking around again. You're not likely to end up alone, but carry on in the frame of mind you're currently in and you'll end up in a loveless, or abusive relationship. Nothing more lonely than living with someone you don't love.
2006-09-23 12:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by paula c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Youll meet someone..Everyone feels like that sometimes..If you dont know anybody youd be interested in and have to work too often..Try to meet someone on one of those Dating Services..Surprisingly..Those actually work sometimes
2006-09-23 12:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by I Hate Liberals 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is some useful advice here.
2006-09-26 15:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-23 12:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a question?
2006-09-23 12:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by lady pig 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋