2006-09-23 04:53:05 · 16 answers · asked by Krista 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Unless he is hurting you or mistreating you in someway...GET OVER IT! It's time for your mom to be able to enjoy life and do what she wants to do. She is the adult. I am sure your mom has not liked all of your boyfriends. Stop being so childish.
2006-09-23 04:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by ☮ Erica ☮ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if you and your mom are close or not but the right thing to do would be to express your feelings to her and just let her go about her buisness. guys usually come and go even if they stay a while. and you will eventually grow up and be out of there if they decide to get closer. but i wouldnt suggest being immature and playing tricks and what not because you will most likely get in trouble and make your mom dissapointed in you and sad.
2006-09-23 12:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by missscs326 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went though the same thing at first i didn't like my moms boyfriend to me i just hated him..... i always made excuses when he told me to do stuff, "like u aren't my dad"... but later i started to ask him questions about him, and he asked me questions about me it turned out that really he is not that bad. But you should also ask yourself is your mom in love? If so u should do what makes your mother happy and that's what i did.When I accepted him later like 6 months it was like he was my real dad baby girl no one can take place of your real father...Just give it a try it wont hurt. Good Luck To You
Alexis R.
2006-09-23 12:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What yur feeling is normal- we never like who our parents go out with or gsp!- marry.Both my parents remarried and I never thought the new step-p were good enough for them.
It's like you have this stranger in your family all of a sudden- and you have to be polite.
Treat your mom w/ love and respect (remember- what goes around, comes around) and if this guy makes her happy- be happy for her.
If the guy is a loser, and you haven't been whining about him being around, your mom will be more likely to listen to your opinion.
Your mom and you are different people. He may be right for her.
If he's a good guy, let it go.
2006-09-23 13:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by elizaatfalls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont like him becuz your resntful about not having your real dad or whatever then do nothing because she needs love in her life too. But if you dont like him because you know hes just a bad guy or looks at you funny, or gives you a really bad vibe and is not a semi dad kinna guy to you, then tell her and be honest, she will respect you opinion if your totally honest. if not then shes just a biotch. But dont be like the one who never lets her mom be free and fall in love and stuff, we all need some lovin. put yourself in her shoes
2006-09-23 11:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
normal, stay way from him and don't be alone with him. But he is your mom's boyfriend and it is up to her who she likes and not your choice to make. Do not be destructive, either it will work out or not but it is not your place to interfere.
2006-09-23 11:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your mom know about this? Well, you and your mom should sit down and talk. Talk to your mom about this. Tell her how you feel about her boyfriend.
2006-09-23 12:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by •°o.O чĀпИǎĤ O.o°• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~~~why dont you like him?? Is he good to your mom,,,does he make her laugh,,,,does he respect her. If not,,,you should talk to your mom,,,,let her know how you feel. It doesnt mean she will dump him,,,but mabey by understanding why she likes him,,,it will help you to accept him a little better. ~~~
2006-09-23 11:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by ~~Penny~~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless hes abusive nothing I'm sure you will have boyfriends she don't like.
2006-09-23 12:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your own boyfriend.
2006-09-23 12:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋