My girlfriend asked me to have sex with her while she was asleep. I couldn't bring myself to it. I just told her I did when she woke up the next morning to make her happy. Guys, what would you do in this situation. Girls, what are your thoughts on this?
2006-09-23 04:21:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um....she likes it kinky? i have no ideal!! thats a little weird. lol um... just ask her y she wanted u to have sex when shes asleep. maybe she just wants to know if she have wet dreams or sumthing or if she'll wake up, or maybe if you like it when she's not aware of it. who knows...just ask her.
2006-09-23 04:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you aren't married to each other, you shouldn't be having sex because Jesus said it is sin.
On another level though, if she isn't wanting to be awake during sex, how is she going to have an orgasm? To experience it, one has to be awake. This tells me that she is not interested in whatever you do for sex and therefore, I would get out of the relationship. As the saying goes, "It takes two to tango" and she isn't involved enough to do her part. Makes me wonder why and how long it will be before she tells you to hit the road.
Find another girl somewhere who will be fully committed to your relationship, marry her and work together as full partners.
2006-09-23 11:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told that if I wanted to that I could. However I haven't attempted that.
There is a term for that. You can search the web.
I have been a "victim" of this in my past.
I feel that if you have clearance to do so it is OK. But I think you have a good head on your shoulders. Since you have not done it.
2006-09-23 11:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You couldn't have sex with her while she was asleep. She would wake up.
So in fact, you lied to her and she knows you lied. You should have just told her that you were asleep too.
2006-09-23 11:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, was she dead...Unless drugged or intoxicated i cant see how you could possibly sleep through having sex, Besides you shouldn't lie to her either, its not saying a lot about your love making. If my partner decided to help himself i certainly would no lol.
2006-09-23 11:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's hot, why not do it? I thought most guys loved having sex! If you like her, and she likes sex, Just do it. Don't lie, she'll find out sooner or later.
2006-09-23 11:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mariya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like being awake for sex
2006-09-23 11:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If any woman could sleep through my love-making I would not want anyone else to know.
2006-09-23 11:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you made a good choice, sometimes girls are just too keen on wanting to have sex...
2006-09-23 11:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by treehugger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would f**k her while she's asleep. If she wanted you to, but if she didn't want to then don't. That's inappropriate. Don't.
2006-09-23 11:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋