I started to go to church again about 3 years ago, and I have changed so much. My attitude has changed, and my mom doesn't believe it has, but it really has. And I don't wear pants anymore I wear long skirts, I am Pentecostal and Proud. But my mom is trying to get me out of church and we argue sometimes about and it often leaves me hurt and I cry a lot, and the rest of my family is almost the same way. It hurts, I am the only one trying to do something good for me and all I am getting is hurt by my family. I try to get my mom to go to church but she won't have any of it. I sing a lot at church too and she won't even come to see me sing. What should I do?
2006-09-23 04:13:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am not trying to convert anybody I am doing the best I can for My God.
2006-09-23 04:21:28 · update #1
I am wondering if your behavior in the home hasn't been a bit uppity and pious. Perhaps that is why they are not pleased with you attending church. Have you been exhibiting behaviors that would appear like you have been brainwashed?
I don't understand why they would have a problem unless you have been doing something to make them have a concern.
We are Pagan and encouraged our son to explore different religions. We even gave him a ride to church twice a week.
Blessings )O(
2006-09-23 04:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I grew up in a Pentecostal home and loved it! Good for you!! I was taught that the devil will work @ gaining control in many ways. My grandfather always said " The devil is not waiting outside the bar for because he already has you, but is standing out side the church fearing you may never revert back"! Stay strong ask the Lord for strength if you truly believe you will become stronger!
2006-09-23 11:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by jovi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you should do is PRAY! It may take a LONG time for your family to come around, but if you pray continuously about it you will see a change. Get other people to pray, don't just tell your family how you have changed, show them through your actions. Let them see the joy that you have now. Don't argue with them. That will only make them worse.
2006-09-23 11:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by ms.melancholy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It can be really hard. I think keep going to church and pray for your family and treat them kindly. I became a Christian at 17 and started going to church and my family hated it, they were atheists. When i was baptized they refused to come. It was embarrassing to me to not have any family there. Keep up your good witness and God will bless you for it.
2006-09-23 11:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by Annmaree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep going to church and keep praying for your family .i will pray for you and your family. ask your church to pray to, there is power in prayer. the devil does not want you or your family saved,and because you are now a christian he will try to keep your family from becoming a christian. remember we not war against flesh but we battle in the spiritual world, read ephesians 6.12 well read all of ephesians. stay strong in JESUS. GOD bless you my sister in the LORD
2006-09-23 11:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by lefftylucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect their wishes as much as you want them to respect yours.
DONT try to convert people, If someone doesnt want to go to church, dont try to force them to do it, dont nag. Dont act like you are closer to god just cause you're going to church.
Its great that you have found god/church, but not everyone is into religion, respect that and find other things you can do with your family without mentioning your religion.
2006-09-23 11:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kid A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your mother doesn't respect your life decisions, then there is a deeper problem there. Explain to her that it is your belief and ask her to respect that. Remind her that respecting your decisions does not mean that she agrees or disagrees with them.
Show her by example what your faith has done for you, it is the best testimony.
2006-09-23 11:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but I think your family has a right to be concerned about your choices......the reason I say this is because alarm bells start ringing when someone says "I don't wear pants anymore I wear long skirts"
2006-09-23 11:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Have you sat down with your family and discussed your feelings properly?
Perhaps you could ask your Church leader to help you speak to them?
2006-09-23 11:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by Im.not.a.hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay strong, and pray, and be patient.
Trust that God is at work when you pray for them - because He is.
Our prayers are always answered according to his perfect will and timing - rest in that.
You are wonderful! Stay close to your God, and he will stay close to you.
2006-09-23 11:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋