Nice guys finish last right? Seems like whats been happening to me recently
2006-09-23 04:08:31 · 29 answers · asked by dunc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some girls do. most women don't. when a woman grows up and wants something more from life than a bad guy who treats her like something on his shoe then she goes for the good guy...good luck
2006-09-23 15:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Loobyloo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do. It's like this. Say you went for a job interview and they wanted to hire you on the spot. You went to another intererview and they made no promises, later they called you for a second intererview and later in the month they called for a third interview. A few months down the road they offered you a job, and told you that you were the best of the 200 or more applicates that applied. Which job would you feel better about? The one that was offered first, or the second that you had to work at and really felt you were competeing with other people for? Probably the second, right? Same thing with women (usually). They want the guys that others girls cannot have, not the one that settles for them quickly.
Seeming a little uninterested, or "mean"....lets them know that you have lots of choices/applications and that you are in demand.
2006-09-23 04:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I use to be like that. We think we can change the person. Or we just don't believe we can be loved. After 46 years I met a nice guy. He thought he would finish last and he did, with me. Don't change just to get a woman. Someone will notice what you have to give and love you just the way you are. Maybe you're looking for the wrong type of women.
2006-09-23 04:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that women like the abuse; what they like instead are some of the qualities that bad boys seem to have. Copy what the bad boys do right, and not what they do wrong, and you could be every woman's dream: a bad/good boy combination!
Bad boys act indifferent to what others think (I.E.: self-confident & a challenge).
They are unpredictable (fun & excitement).
They are assertive & don't put up with other people's crap (leadership).
Women think that they are tough & streetwise (protective).
Nice guys tend to be predictable (boring).
Nice guys act too submissive & deferr to other people too much (being too nice comes across as either manulipitative or weak).
2006-09-23 04:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because every guy treats them nice. They walk from their house to the shop and about 5 guys try to talk to them as nice as they can. They fed up of that, so they want somebody that gives them the basic respect, but at the same time makes fun of them.They want some one DIFFERENT. I have a weeked e-book on it by a man who dedicated 10 years of his live on this subject. Contact me and I might give it to you for free. HlihorTeodor@yahoo.com
2006-09-23 04:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dayandnight 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand why it form of feels to artwork yet I easily have observed that in the time of many situations it does. possibly that is related with the entire "a woman needs to date a nasty guy" undertaking, or a accepted want for undertaking and exhilaration. there is likewise the sweetness and the Beast "i will replace him" dream wherein a woman would have an urge to experience that she is efficient sufficient to alter a guy by potential of loving him completely. that is often not healthful to compliment to spend it sluggish with somebody who treats you like airborne dirt and dirt so I easily have been widely used to actively discourage it. As for no count if it incredibly works the two approaches or not, i'd say the female equivalent is enjoying confusing to get. purely as some women individuals will bypass after the recommend guy, some adult males tend to bypass after the detached lady who makes him artwork at it.
2016-12-18 15:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I quite agree with you. Girls are most confusing. However if you have been a good boy, doing the dishes, cooking etc. every day and such, they will fall for you.
I think girls like have fun with bad boys and then when they think the time has come to settle down, they get a good boy.
2006-09-23 06:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by netwalker01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know personally, I don't want a man who is going to be abusive, but at the same time, I don't want a man who is going to give in to my every whim either, is there some middle ground?, I think women just get to a place where they are truly scared, I'm not sure if it's about being alone or scared of the man himself or what!
2006-09-23 04:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some women do seem to want to be abused. Is that anything any self respecting man would be glad of? She is doing it because she has been deeply hurt in her life. She needs someone to help her discover true self-worth and hope, not take advantage of a wounded woman.
2006-09-23 04:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad boys are a challenge.Now that I'm older & wiser I know way different. When everything comes to easy it looses your interest. You get bored! Now that I have seen that you can't change a man I know the nice guys are what I should of picked.
2006-09-23 04:12:27 · answer #10 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋