As i am terrible with guys and want to not give not mixed signals as im shy and flirting doesnt come natural
2006-09-23 03:49:17 · 18 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
play it off. pretend your one of the guys without goin' lesbo.
2006-09-23 03:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and if a guy wants u to like him he will make up things believing that it is a signal from u that u like him for example my one friend likes this girl and i know she does not have feelings for him cause i have asked her anyway she made eye contact with him when he was talking to a friend...they were sitting around on the same table having dinner she was probably just interested in what he was saying...
One of the greatest feelings in the world is when a girl tells u she likes u and the only way of showing it without being too open is by trying to hold his hand...i have had this conversation with many of my girlfriends and guy friends and they agree with me on this one...Also if u are just yourself u will naturally end up showing that u like some guy like just giving him loads of attention i hope this helps by the way i am in a long term relationship and my girlfriend has problems showing me that she loves me but i know she does cause she has softened over time :D:D
2006-09-23 11:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Stan the man 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To get yourself a guy just give a look, turn away for 10 seconds, then give another look with a smile.
If your in a pub or club, when he goes to the bar, go to get a drink yourslef and stand right next to him, say hello if you can get up the courage.
Get one of your friends to talk to him, get her to introduce you and 9 times out of 10 he will do all the work.
Men absolutely love it when women show interest, it takes off loads of pressure and the fear of rejection.
When you are together, he's what you need to remember.
NEVER EVER mention anything remotely to do with marraige, kids, rings, buying a house, living together, engagement, staying together for ever, wedding dresses, etc, etc.
Talk short term, about now and next week.
Wait until your a regular couple with months behind you before you touch on any of these, unless he says something first.
2006-09-23 11:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy too, but I flirt like mad! It depends on a sense of humor. And flirting is an interaction, it depends on both of you to hold up the game. It's just talking and acting silly, that's not so hard to do. A lot of it is body language, keeping eye contact, turning towards them to talk, showing interest in what they say.
2006-09-23 10:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, you may think that making it obvious you like a guy may be too "full on" but from a guy's point of view, you could smile at him, be nice to him, ask him about things he likes, and to you, its obvious you like him. However, sometimes a girl will do all those things and have no romantic interest in you whatsoever and guys most of the time can't tell the difference. If you tell him that you'd like to go out with him sometime or if you give offer him your number and tell him that you'd like to talk and maybe hang out sometime, he will not think you are being too full on or desperate. He will like it if he likes you.
2006-09-23 10:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is all about showing the object of your affection that you are interested. This can be done simply by showing more attention than normal to their questions, laughing overly long at their jokes(Funny or not), Twirling your hair. if you really want them to notice you press in closer than normal(Not touching) and look deeply into his eyes and hold the look. If he is not interested he will ignore all these signs.
2006-09-23 10:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Natural is more of a turn on for the guys believe it or not. Just carry on being yourself, they like th shy girls, better than the bulshy mouthy ones.
Perhaps just let on subtly that you like them by way of body language, touching your hair and crossing your legs. Fiddling with your necklace is another sure way of letting him know that you are flirting.
2006-09-23 10:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Scatty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a guy I may not be able to tell you how to flirt...but I can tell you what catches our attention.
-Laugh at our jokes
-Smile alot.
-Small touches on the forearm or shoulder while talking will do it
-Invite him over for dinner...we like food!
-Make eye contact when walking down the hallway and keep the eye contact until you pass us by.
Finally, remember one thing. We are just not that smart when it comes to girls...we sometimes need a nudge, and sometimes we need to be hit over the head with a large frying pan, to get the hint.
2006-09-23 10:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Luc S 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself if you have to act false to get the man he might expect you to act that way all the time .Shy women are very sexy so don't worry about that just join in the conversation as much as you can .Good luck x
2006-09-23 10:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i always give mixed signals but it doesn't really matter. if you just talk to em with tons of energy and confidence that you don't really care what they think of you, he's gonna like that. no1 wants someone with absolute no confidence in themselves.
2006-09-23 10:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the total oppisite problem. I'm too full on. Shy and demure is great I think.
2006-09-23 10:52:00 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋