hi. my name is Balu and i am frm India but i live in russia i learn in a russian school. the problem is, that i love a girl in my school. i am afraid she loves another guy who looks and who is more popular than me. but i think loveing by looking into the hearts hearts, not the appearence. i love her by her by her outside but mostly i love her by her inside. she's normal. anyway i want to tell her that i love her but i am afraid that she will decline me cause i am an Indian. tell anything to make her love me. pls pls pls pls pls pls pls pls pls pls pls pls pls? i think of here day and night! pls help?
2006-09-23 03:49:12 · 9 answers · asked by balu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
true. as long as you guys are friends and there is communication be friends. if she fells in love with you.. go for it. dont be shy to talk to her. good luck [fingers crossed :)]
2006-09-23 03:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sinead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is too strong a term. maybe if you tried to use the term "like" it won't really toughen and make things as difficult. as for you're crush, the only thing u can do is tell her. shes probably just waiting for you to make that move. if you don't, then she's gonna get bored and move on. so make that move now. if you're nervous, don't worry! there isn't one person here that's never felt nervous wen confessing that they like (or love in your case) someone. it's perfectly normal, and the faster you do it, the faster you get it over with. so go for it!!! best of luck
2006-09-23 10:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't make her to love u, if she doesn't feel u in her heart. but that u r from India have nothing to do with love, actually i think it would be interesting for her . just believe in yourself and show her that u r unique.
and remember - don't be shy !!!! girls don't like shy guys.
2006-09-23 10:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it...you're from India but you live in Russia and you are typing in english. Make up your mind already!
2006-09-23 11:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by roshambo76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best way is to look for someone who knows her ask them if u hev a chance if they say know tell them u ain`t gonna give up i know being embarrassed is painful but sometimes you jus hev to try yo best if thas really what you want you might end being with her if you are persistent but not annoying
2006-09-23 10:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by kukuvagsgangsta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok listen this might help you: Just tell her how you feel dont be afraid! If it doesnt work out it wasnt meant to be. But please please dont tell her you love her yet. That could scare her off and you dont want to do that do you? No! Just tell her that you have feelings for her, let her know what these feelings are but like i said before dont freak her out and tell her u love her. PLEASE DONT TELL HER THAT YET!!!!!!! But yeah anyways i really hope this works out for you. Dont be afraid, I know you can do it! I have faith in you! ~GOOD LUCK~
2006-09-23 10:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance. be her friend and get to know her better. she might start to like you this way. try to talk to her her when you get the chance. and don't worry so much, if you're so impatient it might make things bad for you.
2006-09-23 10:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by mondo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to be friends with her first..then find out what kind of guy she likes then you can improve yourself to being that guy that she likes. who cares if you're indian..unless she's racist or something then that's the problem.
2006-09-23 10:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by iloveducks_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you my freind are obsessed. i recommend you tell her in a respective gentlemen way that you are interested and affectionate
towards her. take a bath, brush your teeth, get a haircut, shave your armpits, your butt, and your private area, and look nice. get a job, and prove you can supprt her. go get 'em tiger.
2006-09-23 10:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋