I feel like all of my friends are guys. For some reason, I have more in common with them, im not a lesbian and not a butch. I just have a sense of humor and i am very confident. It seems like all the guys i like just think im 'too cool for a girlfriend'. Any tips to have guys like me?
2006-09-23 03:45:12 · 20 answers · asked by Poo for ALL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from my experience they prob. r intimidated by u because u r tight with them ...if u like one u will have to be the one to act on it & see where it goes..i used to hang out with guys all the time too...girls have too much drama for me to want to deal with & i have been married now to one of those"guy friends" for almost 7 years now,any way they r just scared of u because your not like all the other girls...use that to your advantage!...becasue your a little different it also makes u interesting!...good luck!!
2006-09-23 03:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've never been a girly girl either. My friends have always been guys. I only have one friend that is a girl and she's not a girly girl either. It was hard when I was younger. Everyone got to go to the prom and stuff. I never did. Not that I wanted to, because you had to wear a dress for that. But I may have worn a dress if someone asked. I didn't even want to wear a dress for my wedding but I broke down and did it.
Just make small changes like maybe curling your hair or a little bit of light colored lipstick. They will start to notice. I'm 32 years old now and I'm finally starting to get a little bit girly. Thursday night I tried wearing high heels. I twisted my ankle so bad, I can't walk yet. But I also found a great guy that doesn't care. I help him work on his cars. My small hands get places his can't. I don't care if I get dirty. There are guys out there that will like you because you aren't hight maintenance. It will take a while but you will find them.
Just a little warning. Don't try to make drastic changes all at once. You know what you are comfortable wearing. Don't change because you think that's what guys like.
2006-09-23 11:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by danadeville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Look, first your situation is not unique. There are a lot of girls out there who are "one of the guys". Don't ask me why, it just is who we are as women. But, if you want a guy to notice you, you may need to look at your hair first, and then your choice of clothes next. Listen, I am not trying to get you to become Barbie. But I am trying to get you to think about both who you are as a person (you can change, you know) and how you feel challenged (notice I did not say comfortable like some of those shoes you wear) in expressing yourself as an adult woman. Who are you and what is your style? Think about it and then take some risks. Try something new. Let the woman inside emerge as an expression of your confidence. Remember, women can be very confident in many different ways. Some of those ways just stop a man cold. Bang.
2006-09-23 10:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is a bit of an issue isn't it. I was at a party last week-end where all the guys were huddled outside around the BB-Q grill talking and drinking and all the girls were inside talking and drinking. One female who tries to be friends with all the guys was outside seeking attention as always. There were many comments made about her by the group of girls inside, but I thought nothing of it as I didn't know her well, but as the guys would come inside- they were making comments about how the girl outside was making an a$$ of herself because she thought she was 'one of them and friends with all of them' when in fact they couldn't stand that she was coming on too strong and flirting like an attention w#hore. So the girls didn't like her and the guys admitted that they were tolerant of her only because they knew "she was a 'tailgate party' A.K.A 'train' waiting to happen"...Very sad she had put herself in that position. The moral is...be careful where you hang, you never know what people are thinking about you - act appropriately.
2006-09-23 10:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that if your friends are all guys there are one or two that already like you but they are afraid of ruining your friendship becaus they think your so cool.
If you are interested in one then you need to ease off the friendship a LITTLE. Be more flirty then friendly. Don't spend all your time with him and leave some room for mystery. If they know everything about you its not fun for them. If there is no chase its not fun for them.
Good luck!
2006-09-23 10:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im just like you too im a girl and mostly everybody on the net thinks that im a guy cause i do other things like play pool you now gou things but my boyfriend thinks that its sexy just act a little girly, look good all the time but act just how you are flirt a little and make them whant you
2006-09-23 10:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to check your behavior... are you talkin ..walkin... and dressing in a manner to give the impression you are one of them? are you too familiar... telling everything..talking too much about things you should not be talkin about. if so ..you are giving them the big sister impression.. or pal. stop hangin with them all. guys do not want girls..that alllllllll the guys are hanging with. get some girlfriends.. you are going to need them..when you start facing issues.. guys know nothing about
2006-09-23 10:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of showing you can hang with the guys show them that sexy female inside of you.If you like one of the guys do you flirt & show your femine side or are you punching them & farting like one the guys.
2006-09-23 10:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to dress up a little bit..they'd be surprised to see how pretty you are if you're on your feminine side..like wear a skirt or dress put a little make up on. and just surprise them with that..
2006-09-23 10:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by iloveducks_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try dressing up more, wearing makeup, or doing cute stuff to your hair.
2006-09-23 10:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋