I'm hopeless when it comes to romance and relationship. I really like my boyfriend. I feel I can have long term relationship with this person. I have no idea what interesting things can I do to make the relationship more fun and exciting. What do you guys and girls do?
2006-09-23 03:39:13 · 19 answers · asked by gucciRUSH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got to find some fun stuff to do that the both of you enjoy doing together. Hobbies, crafts, sports, or anything besides just looking at each other. This really tests the strength of your relationship, doesn't it? If you don't really enjoy being together, and just spending time together, and you are pressured by sex all the time, then maybe you need to consider the fact, you may not be such a great couple after all. If that's all your partner wants to do, then your relationship is in trouble to start with. Talk to someone about this, like your parents, school counselor, or a minister. Good Luck, and I hope you find what your looking for!!
2006-09-23 03:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try all the classics - massages, candle-lit dinners, snuggling in front of a fireplace.
Those sort of things can lead to sex but don't always. Just be up front if sex becomes an issue. If your bf expects something will lead to sex and doesn't, ut can be upsetting.
You can always do something he wants to do but you aren't crazy about. For example, if he loves to ski but you're terrified, maybe take a lesson on the slope from him and show that you are doing it just to be with him. He'll appreciate it.
2006-09-23 10:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by QuickQuestion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise him with the things he enjoys. Is he in to sports,etc.? Do those kind of things. Like if he likes to go fishing . Plan a day for that without letting him know ..just the 2 of you go out on the lake & make a day of it.
2006-09-23 10:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes make a lounge picnic.. put a blanket down in the front room.. bottle wine and some picnic foods...it can be quite erotic... J
2006-09-23 10:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jens 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With us, it is just being together, touching each other. We can be watching TV and rubbing each others feet, or playing with each others hair, stuff like that. It's the simple things that work the best.
2006-09-23 10:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chill out take a holiday, laugh dont take it so serious but to be honest im single so i really cant answer the question but i wouldnt worry about it just chiiiiiiiil woman chiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiil
2006-09-23 10:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Eoin C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Games, movies, amusement parks, role-playing, random acts of kindness, spontaneity, small surprises, presents, etc.
...just to name a few.
2006-09-23 10:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do things right it all leads to sex...if you are lucky. Romantic is candles, flowers, a quiet dinner, slow dancing to sexy music...how couldn't you have sex afterwards?
2006-09-23 10:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by roshambo76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things you enjoy doing together, maybe start a hobby together?
2006-09-23 10:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by welsh_witch_sally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just be yourself after all he became your boyfriend because he like youjust the way you are.Just be yourself.
2006-09-23 10:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋