for the virgins, when they make love for the first time, does it hurt only that first time or several times, or a longer period ?
2006-09-23 02:49:10 · 14 answers · asked by jane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends. sometimes is urts for 2 or 3 times because th hymen is still sore from being torn. but usually it doesn't hurt for long than 1 or 2 times.
2006-09-23 02:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by jay d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re-consider loosing your virginity!
Sexual Intercourse should be between 2 People that Love and care for each other!
Not something you give away to get a Badge or something!
Do not Secomb to Pier-Pressure or What the Media dictates is normal!
2006-09-23 09:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Gummy. In my case it hurt so bad I was about to lose control of my bladder out of pain if the pressure to break the hymen was to last for much longer.
I guess one KEY issue regarding pain is the guys erection. If it is not a full one (like it was in my case), one could be prepared for endure pain and for a time that seems to last forever...
I must imagine that a full erection must make things much easier. It is easy for guys to say we must relax :-) it is hard to relax while feeling pain. Would they be able to relax with someone burning they arms, for example? :-O It is time to see that not all the pain or anything else that might not go so well on a girls first time is not to be all blamed on her lack of experience, I would say.
2006-09-23 10:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it wasn't bad. You have to be physically ready (wet, loosened up). If you are tense down there, it will be painful. Same thing as when you insert a tampon if you're not relaxed. Also, it's best if your partner knows you are new to this, so they can be gentle.
If it really hurt as bad as people say it does, would we all be doing it? It's just an adjustment.
2006-09-23 10:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurt really bad the first time. I think past that I was fine. All depends on how nervous she is
2006-09-23 09:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may not be able to answer your question very well because I'm still a virgin. When my ex tried to have sex with me, it hurt so much that I almost ran away. That's why I'm still a virgin.
2006-09-23 09:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the induvidual. For me it didn't hurt. This is usually because you tighten muscles when you are nervous, just try to totally relax, and it's fine
2006-09-23 09:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by siany warny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's different. It'll probably just hurt the first few times though. It all depends on your body and HIS. :) Just be SAFE!!
2006-09-23 09:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by gidget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it does hurt the first time...and it took longer than i expected....but after the fifth round,,,the pain subsided and i started feeling the sweetness of it,,,by the way...hoep you are married....its wrong to do it outside marriage
2006-09-23 10:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by funnykindel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are gentle, and slow it does not even have to hurt the first time
2006-09-23 09:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋