If so What did you say?Im just interested thats all because the presssure always seems to be on the men to ask a woman out and it can get very nervous,even for me.By the way im single so ask me out for a date lol.
2006-09-23 02:36:26 · 33 answers · asked by hellraisersteve 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just approach them and say hi, introduce myself and be friendly. if they have a girlfriend, that normally comes into the conversation and i back off. if not then i just act like i want to be their friend, then before u know it, u're off out to the movies, a restaurant etc..
2006-09-23 02:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Frankie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and I'm known to send a man a drink at a bar or club and that's my opening. I usually do an assessment in the first 10 minutes of conversation and if he's still interesting to me and not just a handsome but empty package, I'll suggest meeting for coffee later in the week or lunch. It's really not that hard. I've met a lot of nice guys that way and even though most never developed into anything further, I am still really good friends with some of the guys.
2006-09-23 02:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Southern Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have asked a man out only 2 times in my life.
The first time was 8 years ago when I was first divorced. I met a man at church and asked him if he would like to go out for lunch after church. He said that he was not interested in me as a date - just as a friend - so he did not want to go anywhere with me.
The second time was only a few months ago when I met someone on-line. I asked him to meet me in a near-by city for the day. He accepted and we are now a devoted couple.
It takes a lot of courage to ask anyone out, but I think it takes even more courage for a woman. If a woman asks a man to go somewhere with her she seems to be either "easy" or "hard up." A woman gives the impression that she is desperate for a date if she is the one doing the asking.
2006-09-23 02:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I never asked a man out for a date, because I didn't want him to think I was easy.
It's pressure, but also power. Ask more women out for a date. Even when the fate of the world doesn't seem to hang on the answer. This way, you will become more comfortable with asking, with the answers, whether good or bad, and with yourself.
2006-09-23 02:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maximum definately! I used to have self belief that replaced into area of the guy's activity yet i began thinking, "why wait if i like somebody?" the 1st guy I asked out I have been given rejected yet everytime previous that it has worked! i think of adult adult males now-a-days form of like a woman who can take cost and make ambitious strikes on her very own. yet there is often an excellent line between assertive and psychotic.
2016-12-12 13:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually ask guys out for a date only if I've known him well enough. I try to ask him in person about a week beforehand and just go "are you busy on so-and-so evening? what do you say we go out for canoeing then finish off with dinner at denny's?" if i don't see him in person then a phone call should also do it. i just keep it simple and painless.
2006-09-23 02:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mizz G 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes.I asked him what he was doing on Saturday night.When he replied nothing.I invited him out to see a movie.He accepted.Two years later we are still dating. BTW I paid for the date.He wanted and expected to .I politely declined his offer.As I was the one who asked him out.He thought it was cool. As a side note I did not expect sex on the first date ,just because I paid for dinner and a movie :)
2006-09-23 02:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by eva b 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't ask you out cause I'm terribly in love & married but I can tell you that is how i got my hubby 16 years ago. I went up to him & told him that he was mine & we have been together ever since. We have 3 kids & somewhat have lived happily ever after. Nothing wrong with asking someone out. All they can say is no.Just learn to handle rejection cause it does happen but it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you.
2006-09-23 02:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are in a bar somtime and see him then go up to him and start a conversation and then say what would you think about going out for a drink sometime put it in a joking way and if he says no then you at least say oh thats grand i was only asking .
2006-09-23 02:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by flower 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah once and it didn't work out in the long run.........but I just called him and said " Hi are you busy?, Want to go out to shoot some pool and maybe grab a bite?" He said yes , but eventually I realized he was not for me....we are still friends!
2006-09-23 02:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by crownvic64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋