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ok theres this guy, and I like him, and a couple weeks ago I was pretty much 100% positive that he likes me too. Because he had called me, and asked if i wanted to go golfing with him, but it ended up being that the parking lot was completly packed, so we couldn't and instead, he took me to his familys condo, and we just hung out there and played ping pong and then we went on the couch and watched tv, and cuddled.....but now, after that, I can't seem to talk to him very easily. When i see him and try to talk to him i'm like 'how are you' and hes usually like 'i'm good'.. and thats the most i can get out of him. And I saw him talking to a bunch of people at a school bonfire last night, so why doesn't he talk to me?! I know he's a shy kid, but I dont think thats the issue anymore, he can't be shy anymore, he KNOWS me.. can i get some advice here?

2006-09-23 02:18:11 · 15 answers · asked by ~Brianna~ 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

no when i said knows, i wasn't refering to sex, we didnt do anything, i didn't even kiss him

2006-09-23 02:31:29 · update #1

15 answers

What did you mean by say he "KNOWS" me? Did you do something more with him? If so, that's probably why he's not talking too much and if you didn't that could be the reason also.

2006-09-23 02:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

When you said he KNOWS you, I hope you weren't referring to sex. If so that is what lots of guys do , Act interested then once they conquer they move on. Or it may be that he is more comfortable talking one on one. He was with a bunch of friends right. Try to pin him alone and just ask straight "Have I done something wrong? What's going on one minute you're hot the next you're cold. If he says the statement "it's not you it me " then red flags go up and don't waste your time ,you deserve better, but give him one last try and you make the first move, then the balls in his court,, GOOD LUCK>

2006-09-23 02:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

He is just being shy, he is not sure how to take this forward now. Take control and be an independant young women. When you see him, make the situation a calm and open one so his shyness does not have to be there. Ask him? Say i really enjoyed the other day, shall we do it again sometime? Whats the worse that can happen? He says no, then you can move on, it is his loss!!
Gire power!

2006-09-23 02:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Could be that he's waiting for you to make the next move. Haven't you asked him what was up? You've got to start being assertive, thats the only way a person gets what they want. Could be that he was trying to get a piece of ***, and since it didnt fly, he figures why try again. ASK!!!

2006-09-23 02:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by penelope 3 · 0 0

baby girl, i don't know how old you guys are, this is what a player would do. it makes you think about him more. and makes you want to ask him what's going on. then the second date will happen and you'll try to make it fun for both. now, it's up to you; do you like him enough to give it up? that's what he's after.

2006-09-23 02:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by harmony 7 · 0 0

i think someone has told him something not to nice about you..or he feels you are breaking into his privacy..or maybe he is playing hard to get to make you worried..and i guess its working on you...to get him back and to know the actual state of what is happening.?..go to him and confront him..you have to fight for your man baby...if you actually love him...tell him how you feel about him and tell him all the signs he has showed that he is interested and ask him why he has been playing hard to get ...put him on the defensive...with these...i think he will come out with what he has in mind

2006-09-23 02:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by funnykindel 1 · 0 0

did any kiss happen? because if you kissed him and he is not talking to you forget him cause he does not like you, but if not then just tell him straight up if he likes you and if not you can always try to make him jelous to see how he reacts and youll now if he like you. good luck

2006-09-23 02:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0 0

go to him look him staight in the eyes and ask why aren't u talking and he doesn't work he's doing soming for u or cheating

2006-09-23 02:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Hi 2 · 0 0

He find out you are not his type - has no interest to know you more.

2006-09-23 02:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0 0

cause you have stinky breath

2006-09-23 02:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by revolou 1 · 0 0

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