So I'm on homecoming court at my school this year and won it because I know alot of people, not because alot of people know me so therefore the popular crowd is pissed. I thought being on HC court would help guys to like me more but i was wrong... like always. On top of all this all the guys I like were all over other girls last night including one that said he couldnt dance with me cuz he had a girlfriend and then went and daced 9087987 times with another girl who has a boyfriend. I mean I dont understand. All the girls like me cause I'm told I'm nice and sweet but the guys dont ever seem to like me. I mean I'm not fat. I'm really athletic and normal. I'm so sick of getting hurt. I like someone and they NEVER like me back. I use to be anorexic and this just makes me want to start all over again. Hoping that it will help me somehow.
2006-09-23 01:31:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Loneliness sucks! Especially at your age. But, don't blame yourself or begin hurting yourself again. Get some help and learn to be okay with you, with or without a guy. Nice ones really do finish last, but the other ones burn out long before you fade away!
Hang in there!
2006-09-23 01:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No..No...No....please don't go there again.....you already know the harms that anorexia can cause, and you are worth more than this, I don't know how old you are, but assuming you are in High School, it sounds like you are well liked, and have many friends, give one of your girlfriends a call, and explain to them, go to your mom or dad and if you are able, let them know how lonely you feel, I know I am not your age, but I was younger once, and I know how you feel, Don't do anything to hurt yourself again sweety, you sound as if you have a lot going for you, Cheer up.
Life does get better, and so do the guys!
2006-09-23 08:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have faith my dear.One possible reason the other girls are getting all the attention is simple, at your age guys are looking for the girls everyone thinks are "easy".Your a nice girl,keep it that way.The guys will smarten up.And if it's any consolation,when you get older and go to class reunions,suddenly all of them are going to be wondering why they messed up and didn't go after you in school.When the reunions come around,all the "hot" easy girls have gotten either fat or look like hell. None of them look as good as the cute nice girls you overlooked when you had the chance.
2006-09-23 08:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make people like you. Just place less importance on it all & get to be more strong within yourself & you'll be surprised how much better you feel. You have a whole lot of time in front of you to meet interesting cool people who are going to like you for who you are.
2006-09-23 08:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by shirazzza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE SINCE YOU ARE IN HIGH SCHOOL, YOU SHOULD WORRY ABOUT OTHER THINGS. LIKE YOUR EDUCATION FOR EXAMPLE. OR YOU COULD BE A TRAMP LIKE THE OTHER GIRLS AND MAYBE THE GUYS WILL LIKE YOU??? YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND IS NOT ONE OF THOSE BOYS, SO DON'T WORRY SO MUCH, ENJOY LIFE AND APPRECIATE WHO YOU ARE.
2006-09-23 08:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by tlcin2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" If you have to be liked, you are spiked!" (LRH)
Ciao..........John-John.
2006-09-23 08:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by John-John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋