i have liked this person for over a year now but this person has been in a relationship for 8 months. i think it could happen between us but i know that person would not do anything whilst in the relationship. I really like this person but if i tell this person how i feel it could ruin our relationship. HELP!!!
2006-09-23 01:24:20 · 18 answers · asked by magic conor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we always want that which we can not have.
2006-09-23 01:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by Alfred E. Newman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave those feelings alone, it can ruin the relationship you had with that person. I was in a situation like that couple weeks ago. Now, I'm not talking to that guy because I told him that I have a boyfriend but he wouldn't listen. He tried to kiss me so I punched him and now we aren't talking. I told him if he tried anything it would ruin our friendship and he pulled that stunt so yeah, he lost me as a friend. It's not worth it, just leave those feelings alone.
2006-09-23 01:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya have to take risks in life especially in love!! It is better to regret the things ya do rather then they things you didn't as you will always have the what ifs !! If ye have a good friendship then it wont be ruined by telling the truth . Just let them know how you feel no pressure just tell them you needed to be honest they will respect you for that .
2006-09-23 01:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by M's 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd steer well clear to be honest, being involved in a break-up of a relationship is asking for trouble.
She's only been seeing him for 8 months - it's early days, so bide your time and wait and see... , and don't go stirring it - like what someone did to me and my Ex.
Go date other women in the meantime afterall, you may meet someone you really click with.
2006-09-23 01:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by an5200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away....if their relationship ends then you can maybe pursue something with them but in the meantime find something else to occupy your mind. If you try anything now and it causes problems they will only end up hating you and destroying any chances of anything happening later on down the road....
2006-09-23 01:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must try to overcome and beat this lad who she is in a relationship with. by making this girl feel you more than she feels this person like tryin to be funny and if you know what type of men she likes try and be that person.
2006-09-23 01:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by jaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not married or engaged, go for it. At least tell her how you feel. If you do and she says no, move on. If she says yes, then treat her right. But ask yourself first if you really like her or just want her 'cuz you can't have her right now.
2006-09-23 01:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by gidget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT! leave her alone to be happy dont ruin it for her, just wait to see if they brake up and see how it goes from there DONT ruin her relationship with her boyfriend
2006-09-23 01:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her??? It can't hurt and she will never know until you do! Maybe she feels the same and is afraid to tell you? If not atleast you don't have to wonder anymore!
Good Luck
Always Amy
2006-09-23 01:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better 2 say something that 2 let her slip away.
What's the worst that can happen?
She could turn U down?
or she could run in2 UR arms with relief?
Say something, do it soon.
:)
2006-09-23 01:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good relationship is comes from friends, why don't you try to make friend first, then try to be closer to him or her. so try to tell some of your problem but not your problem to him or her. if you think that she or he is more closer to you then that's the time you tell him or her what's inside you. tell that you been waiting for the right time to tell your feeling & you think thats the right time to tell that feelings. so goodluck!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-23 02:33:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋