His father is a nueroclinical psychologist and abused my hubby as a child. HE IS trying to kep him from me. My husband is disappearing , repeating the exact same sentences and telling me lies about our life. He says he wants to die. He doesnt want to hurt me but cant stop himself. He knows he loves me that is all he hasnt forogtten. I really need help
I forgot to say. He came home for a week , I got him to his VA psy
who wouldnt get past the drugs though hubby was ready to talk about dad. Hubby took truck to get his stuff, (wouldnt let me go. I'm not allowed there since calling dads dr. about meds he addicted him to in May.) came home with two shirts one of his three guitars and told me we were just friends. I lost hi m again.
I HAVE CALLED every authority. I am in Maine. I am not his guardian.
He lstens to me a little eees the truth and gets a terrible headache. He told me he cant remember us. I try to gt him to go away from here , I feel alone on this. It's up to m
2006-09-23 00:43:57 · 5 answers · asked by rasberi 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I think you need a change of scenery.
Move to a new city and start a new life.
Tell your husband he can join you when he is ready.
2006-09-23 02:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This one is so complicated and my heart goes out to you. Truth really is stranger than fiction and I have always said if I ever write my life's story it will be "faction".
I come from a similar background as your husband and he seems to be exhibiting signs of post traumatic stress disorder...however in this case the stressor....his father....remains an influence in his life.
One of two things is happening here. Either your husband is a true psycopath and is yanking your chain or he needs serious help.
Is he currently on any medications?
I am a truama nurse and we get alot of folks that the VA have let slip through the cracks. There are several community resources available.
I feel strongly that you should have help yourself during this time. You need support and to simply vent your emotions in a safe enviornment. I know right now life itself seems like gorilla warfare but it is so important not to lose your sense of self during this period of time.
You know there are no quick fix answers. As for control or legal control, a medical power of attourney would cover that and you could argue if dad says "he was not of sound mind" that you now need financial power of attourney ect.
Again, I cannot express how important it is for you to take care of you during this time.
2006-09-23 07:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mila S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ned to get an attorney on this right away...you are still responsible for him as his wife...in spite of what the brainwashing dad is doing you still have the bottom line in most states...get to an attorney asap and see gaurdianship if your husband is ill...and you can use this..you can have the say here..do not hesitate.
2006-09-23 08:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cyber Homeostasis (CH)
Good Luck
2006-09-23 07:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by abracad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this is serious, but have you tried voodoo?
2006-09-23 08:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋