he is an indoor sales person and meets me only in the evenings. i work 5 days a week and are off on weekends. i feel extremely bored during the weekend as i can only meet him after his work. should i continue this relationship with him or not?
2006-09-23 00:17:31 · 22 answers · asked by alluring1314 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U both have got to work and that's "Life". Sacrifices have got to be made. U need to decide what's more important, paying the bills or spending the weekends together.
2006-09-23 00:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have the same problem with you: my fiance works as an Inspector of Natural Gas and he is missing from the house more than 8 hours every day. I see him only in evenings. What I do when he is missing? I go for shopping, go out with my friends and staff like that. What I mean with that? IF THIS IS THE ONLY PROBLEM OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP, DON'T BREAK UP. In my opinion, it's a mistake to break up because he WORKS HARD. It's now that he needs your support and your love! FIND ACTIVITIES TO DO SO AS TO KEEP YOUR MIND BUSY AND NOT THINK ALL THE TIME HOW YOU MISS HIM. That's my relationship has survived!
2006-09-23 00:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend is working alot than that is good , it shows he has responsibilty and loyalty especially if you know he is really working. I suggest you find a hobby, get another friend or family member to occupy your time if you are bored.If your boyfriend sees that you can go on and live your life without him around then maybe he will realize that he should plan on spending more time with you. Making yourself first in your life is important to your happiness, counting on someone else to do that only brings questions like this. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-23 00:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by peanutbulls 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By asking this question you already have the answer, go ahead and break it off with him and let both of you get on with your live's. Good luck.
2006-09-23 02:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationship does not happen by just joining hands but joining them firmly in difficult situations...
this is the time for him to work hard for the future... dont discourage him like this, support him & be happy for whatever goodtime you spend together...
secondly dont try to hold him tightly, he would go away from you...
think over it and then decide
2006-09-23 00:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by manoj r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u need to take a look at how many women out there have slack a** bfs. they would love to have a man that works. yes trade him in maybe ur next one will not work at all and sit at home doing drugs, or drink spending ur moeny to do it.
2006-09-23 00:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
leave him coz hes working hard???? ru crazy? think again..put urself in his place n than think wht would u do? life is nt measure by breath we take but moments tht take our breath away.....talk 2 him n say whtever u feel about him, im sure tht can solve ur problem
2006-09-23 00:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by heart hacker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is life if he works for yours better future
- stay with hem.
If he is workaholic and doesn't care about you
- move out.
Sometimes we do what we have to do - nothing easy.
2006-09-23 00:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey before you decide to break up with him, why not talk to him? he might actually understand and come to a compromise. Don't throw it away just like that!
2006-09-23 00:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by DarlaTremere 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why not? working is not a sin right? who knows if he is just working that hard to be able to save enough money for your wedding
2006-09-23 00:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by shelly_cute 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋