Omg my bf has just gotten into another fight because of his stupid frends... hes a nice guy but his friends are idiots... what should I make him do?? If i take them away do u think he will stop loving me?? why doesnt he realise how much trouble they get him into??
2006-09-22 23:58:43 · 17 answers · asked by ladyloveballer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never make your boyfriend choose between you and his friends, because he will always pick them. Set him down and tell him, from your perspective, that his friends are bad news and that they are just going to get him in trouble. That you don't have a problem with the friends, you just care about him and his welfare and don't want him to get in trouble because of something 'stupid' his friends want to do. He should understand and maybe take it a bit easier.
2006-09-23 00:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You my friend are going to have to learn that birds of a feather flock together, and You are not going to change someone to conform to your ways. You are not training a puppy here! What should you make him do???? You sure do have a lot to learn about guys!! You are not going to MAKE him do anything he doesn't want to. Leave the scum bag, and find you someone who is more like compatible with you. You can't teach a old dog new tricks, and the sooner you wake up and realize this, the better off you will be. Good Luck!
2006-09-23 07:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've learned the hard way...Don't make a man chose between his girl and his boyz.Even though I hate to say this, to a man,His girl is temporary,and his boyz are forever.So If you plan on staying with him,When his moron friends come over,paint a pretty smile on your face and deal with it.Trust me I know it will be hard,but you also gotta think....would you give up your girls for some guy?
2006-09-23 07:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by smallish baby budge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an all controlling cyborg freak mole if you think it is up to you to take away his friends like it is a privilage. It aint as simple as saying 'no puss*y for you tonight' if he doesn't behave. What would you do if he took all your friends away from you and you found out he had rooted all their tight little pussys. Think about ut aight.
2006-09-23 07:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not his owner! Or his parent, you dont have the right to take them away. Your not a very good girlfriend for thinking you do have that right. Your boyfriend is his own person, if he wants to be friends with ideas thats his choose not yours!
2006-09-23 07:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and find a guy who doesnt fight all the time or tell him to ditch his gay friends
2006-09-23 07:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by twiztid992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his a big boy and can choose his own friends.....he is also old enough to decide what to do and what not to do......you cant blame his friends for getting into trouble.....its him.
let him know your concerns of his immaturity and hopefully he will grow up.....if he doesnt then move on....you dont want him to drag you down
2006-09-23 07:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by askaway 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is dumb enough to follow the morons then he deserves what he gets.Dump him before he gets you into trouble.
2006-09-23 07:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant blame his friends for the fight, he chooses to fight his own battles, so thats his own stupidity,, if you cant deal w/ it, or dont want to anymore,, get out and find someone worthwhile,, cuz who knows you might end up in the middle one of his fights and end up dead???!!!! who knows????
2006-09-23 07:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by John C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are deluded if you think you can 'take his friends away' or 'make him do' anything. You're not his mother and that is not how relationships work.
2006-09-23 07:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by sticky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋