my boldness in society is not been accepted easily so i dont care for anyone in my life i just wanna be myself i speak boldly even at public place when i do talk to my friend he says me to shut up or i will land in trouble but if it is wrong i will protest for it even if somebody hurts me also no one is born to kill me uptill now
2006-09-22 23:47:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
It depends on what you are talking about and how loud. Come on, you have to have manners and be polite no matter if you like it or not. You are very inconsiderate of others in a public place by being too bold, and you should not do it in front of your friends. In private, shout all you want boldly, etc., but not in public. It is not harmful in life, it is just a jerk. Besides, you may insult someone, who might beat the canoodles out of you too.
2006-09-22 23:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by shardf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I refuse to use the word CAN"T there is no such thing as you can't. You mean you won't. Yes I believe that sometimes the truth is better not said. Being bold can lead to you loosing friends, and as for I don't care, that's another one that you should get rid of. It doesn't make you smart, or acceptable in others eyes, by saying I don't care. If you reached down into your soul, You would see you do care.and I think that comes from being rejected too many times that it is easy to say I don't care.
2006-09-23 18:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by lennie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you from experience for 55 years. I have always been bold and honest. People don't like it. I have no real friends to date, don't get along too well with my husband, and far less well with my children. I know its in us, we were born that way and I say the same as you. It has gotten me into fights (physical) with people twice my size, and at the time while fighting I didn't even care if I lost, as long as I put up a good fight. Good thing other people broke it up or I would have been dead. If your young please get help. Its too late for a old lady to change now. After all " I have my reputation". Its is a sad way to live. Do all you can now to change, atleast try.
2006-09-23 06:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Corina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you are arrogant and stupid and think you are bold. You will be left all alone for the rest of your life. Just mend your ways and learn how to behave in a society.
You can be bold by being calm and bringing a good reason for your determination like Gandhi
2006-09-23 06:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by indiananytime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have control on your boldness....you don't have to voice that out always....why don't you bring your protest in a form of debate....if you want to refute them..then challenge them,,,one on one...I think that is a more subtel way than just to show your boldness...to the public.
2006-09-23 07:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by james ian h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate!
Let me give you an example!
When I attend any job interview, I tell them straight, that I have this habit of telling people straight on their face if they are wrong, notwithstanding who they are!
And most people say: That's good!
And later they have seen me tell CEO's also on the face that they are wrong! And the person who had interviewed me(my then manager) later called me and told me not to do that!
I sent an email to the CEO, copying him, about what he had said and asking the CEO, if I was wrong!
The reply mail from the CEO blasted the manager and appreciated me for the same!
But Remember:
You got to accept the same from others. If you are wrong and people tell you, you got to accept that! If you do that, then there is no problem with what you do!
All the best!
AB
2006-09-26 16:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by arnab.boral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be bold... just do not infringe upon others rights to have some nice quiet time... If you need to be bold,,, make it known at home where you can let it rip all you want.
2006-09-23 10:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can say anything to cool your jets, BUT unless you really are only 14 years old, as you sound, you may find yourself living a lonely existence. Often it's better to keep your mouth shut, listen to what others say, and think a bit before commenting. Makes people think you are smart when you listen to them intently.
2006-09-23 06:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are being bold for the right thing, u dont have a prob.
2006-09-23 06:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by alldienow9000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am glad to see another fellow like me! Believe me there are many or atleast few like you and me! It is not bad being what you are, keep your individuality alive taking care it will not un necessarily hurt others. World is big dear everything has its charm and beauty!
2006-09-24 23:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by nadkarni_chaitanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋