Ok heres the situation....I was dating this guy...we dated for almost 3 months, we had a sexual relationship. Well he ended things with me because of the age difference. Ok now we agreed to be friends. However is that possible? I mean he already has another gf. Is she going to like him talking to his ex gf, someone with whom he's had sex? Is it really possible for a couple thats been together sexually to be friends after a break up. I do want to be his friend. However I don't want any drama from his new gf. Anyone been in this situation before. Someone help me.
2006-09-22 23:22:04 · 22 answers · asked by Sassy_Gemini_Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am still friends with 2 of my exes (one of them an exhusband). I think people make a big deal out of nothing with this type of situation. If you feel weird about it then stay away from him, but if you all feel comfortable, then don't worry about it. If I were you I would talk to the new GF and ask her how she feels about it--explain to her that you are not interested in taking her man.
2006-09-22 23:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by patchen_mom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nochance the married and once enjoied life could not retuirn as friends but there is morepossibloities for rejoin and make new couple relationship, it is good, try it, loss your ego,send this messasge to your X, he will accept you, your X partner is always the best, dont miss the chance of live as a family.
2006-09-22 23:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Devaraj A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sticky situation...
u can't expect the the other girl to accept u as his friend specially when she knows he had sex with u. wud u do it urself? secondly, i don't think it's a good idea to keep any relation with him now after breaking up. if u had that good relation, then why was the break up? u know what i mean? things won't remain the same now.
look up and start looking for someone else....move on with ur life and let him do with his.
2006-09-22 23:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by genial 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly truthfully couples would want to think of that they might proceed to be friends yet all too regularly that's the guy who's being "dumped" that feels the brunt of it. And ofcourse it incredibly is the place emotion takes over and good judgment is thrown out the window. that's the reason that the final public of divorces pass as undesirable as they do. the guy who grew to become into "dumped" desires to sense like they did no longer purely take the hit and walk away without doing or asserting something to coach their discontent with the region. so a techniques as your concern is going it sounds to me like your "buddy" is finding for something/ somebody new yet she is uncertain that she would be waiting to win the guy she is finding for, and so she desires to have you ever there as a fall decrease back. in this concern you are the superb choose of what's going to ensue and what you're able to do.
2016-10-01 06:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never go from lover to friends. And it is also stupid, they are ex for a reason. And when you get new relationships it will only be another jealousy factor. It isn't fair to the new ones in your lives.
There's still the history, memories and maybe even temptations. Hanging out with him/her later might lead to something stupid and regretful.
2006-09-23 00:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth to you. U can't trust on him It is better for u to remain away from him. Becoz life is very big u never know what will happen tomorow. Initally u may may feel it is difficult but nothing is difficulty . and it is not possible for a couple to be friends. Change things slightly. He is not trustfull person
2006-09-22 23:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by tamanasana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely possible for a couple to remain friends. In fact, it's rather common. However, it does require a certain degree of maturity from all the people involved... both the exes and their new partners.
Just don't push too hard, that's all.
2006-09-22 23:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
even though i didnt yet been through that kind of situation, i can help u. you can be freinds with your ex bf without making a drama to his new gf. one way is to show them that you have good intentions with your ex and you dont mean to get your ex to his new gf. also, be nice to his new gf.
2006-09-22 23:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by My_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is natural and easy to be just friend , if you ensure no necessities sharing in public , keep it up to hello only , can possible if you have courage to control your own emotions , when you see them together .I think you have to work it out .
2006-09-22 23:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u can be freind good freinds but without any sex relation and without love. It'll bother u if u love someone whom love otherone!
so it's better let him go and find a good bf
2006-09-22 23:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by marjan m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋