The girl in question is very good to me in every respect. She respects me so much and she helps me both morally and financially but i don't really love this girl. I did not tell her that i don't love her bcos i thought i might love her one day. Pls what can i do about this situation?
2006-09-22 23:19:23 · 14 answers · asked by Ola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her the truth, it goes a long away.
2006-09-22 23:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you don't tell her that you love her either.
If your love for her is up in the air and she knows that, yet she still is doing the things she has been doing, then she knows she has taken a chance on you.
Do you think it is fair that you continue to use her and not contribute at all? If friendship is all you have to offer and you come to realize that, then question yourself at this point if you should continue letting her be there for you so much.
She deserves to know some truth, especially when she has done a lot for you. But if you continue this way, then you are just using her and it is not right.
2006-09-22 23:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unfair to lead someone on. Relationships go a long way if they are based on sincerity. Tell her how you feel about her and be truthful. She deserves equally the respect she gives you. I am certain if she is very good in every aspect then she will understand you and your feelings. Give yourself a chance to repay her for a change. Best of luck.
2006-09-22 23:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not very good for the girl, because she really loves you. But please do the honest thing and tell her because the longer you wait the harder it would become for you to tell her and for her to let go.
As harsh as it may sound please, please, do the right thing so that she can also be able to find someone who will love her back and for her to be able to move on with her life, same to you too.
2006-09-22 23:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Martha M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how you feel and be honost and start out with something like you're my bestfriend and I care about you very much or something like that. But the longer you wait the harder it will be.
Good Luck
2006-09-22 23:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by outlandishb13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lead her on. ur going to break her heart. Talk to her. maybe she is just being a good friend to you or maybe she wants more than that. If u really cant love her then tell her
2006-09-22 23:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by frozen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not waste your and her time , better tell her flatly or start ignoring her staring , make excuse to avoid her nearness and presence to save your unmatchable future relation , tell her flatly now .
2006-09-22 23:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love her now and you're not going to...but the financial help must be nice.
2006-09-22 23:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth,she'll hurt in the beginning but will respect you in the end.
2006-09-22 23:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
duhh just b'coz she's gud 2 u doesn't mean that you'll force urself to love her.....just tell her evrything honestly......it might hurt a bit....but in this case it would be better to be honest...
2006-09-22 23:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋