He has been complaining tired and not having the mood to make love more than once a week. He had rather watch movies with me almost every day than to make love. I asked him why and he said that he is too tired to do that thing. I asked him how come watching movies not tired and he claimed that he just have to sit there and enjoy but making love needs lots of energy. Does he not love me anymore? Why am i feeling more and more unsatisfied nowadays? We have been together for seven months.. is there such thing called "honeymoon period"? I am feeling miserable now and I have this feeling that we are no longer the same as before..
2006-09-22 23:17:14 · 8 answers · asked by alluring1314 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should look into pleasuring yourself because one it do take a lot of energy to have sex, two, he is attempting to have more in common with you than just having sex because no matter how great the sex is, it should not be the only thing that bonds two people together and third, at least you know where he is at, with you watching movies and not running leaving you alone. If he has lost interest in you, why not invest in toys for lovemaking and when he is "too tired"? You will be surprised how much it will calm the craving. Enjoy! Hope everything works out for you.
2006-09-22 23:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simply, you're not the same as before. Yes, there is a honeymoon period. Obviously, yours has ended. What are you going to do about it? You could always set the mood, get him extremely excited. At that point, he won't be thinking about the television, but of you. If that doesn't work, maybe you should consider moving on. I know that that is hard, but you shouldn't let yourself be miserable for anyone. You deserve more than that and it's about time you realized it.
2006-09-23 06:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya know it's funny because I am in your same boat! He told me that it's like someone took a turned off a switch in him and he can't turn it back on, he said he is trying. He says he loves me and that it's up to me if I want to stay or go. He puts if off on me and says you deserve better.
Is he under a lot of stress? Do you have children? How hard and stressfull is his job? Is he gone working most of the time? Does he go out with the guys? I don't know what to tell you, I know that I am not staying somewhere that it seems I am not wanted when it comes physically. I will be reading your answers!I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST!
Always Amy
2006-09-23 06:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal for sex to become less frequent as the relationship gets older. It's also very common for one person to have a much lower sex drive than the other. If that's a dealbreaker for you (and it sounds like it is), then you'll need to move on. You can try doing all kinds of romantic things, but they won't permanently raise his sex drive.
Hmm... viagra, anyone?
2006-09-23 06:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him rest. sex should not be for everyday. take ur time and keep away from him for a few weeks, I mean don't have sex until he rest enough. men get weak after a few month of constant sex. I think he is try to save his energy.
2006-09-23 06:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by diji 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when hes at work one day get all romantic make dinner candles music playing the works and see if that helps
2006-09-23 06:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by kas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, he's gotten bored with you...time for you to move on.
2006-09-23 06:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell him he can just lay there and hop on and ride him baby. if not please call me at 555-1212 i think i can help
2006-09-23 06:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋