i feel in luv w/this guy when i was 14. he was my first love. we stoped dating when i was 15, then i ran into him wen i was 19 and we dated for 6 months. then we broke up again. now i'm 20 (will be 21 in feb) and i'm still not even over him i comapre every guy i ever met 2 him. i know me and this guy will never be rigth 4 one another and i actally dumped him BOTH times. wut should i do? i've met great guys since then too.
2006-09-22 23:15:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already *know* that this guy isn't right for you. Obviously he has attractive qualities, but if you know the relationship can't work, you just need to move on.
Every person is a package deal, with good qualities and not-so-good ones. Perhaps no other guy will ever be better than your first love in *every* way - and that's okay. There will be guys who are better package deals. Sooner or later you'll get around to accepting that, and then you'll be able to find happiness with someone else.
Good luck!
2006-09-22 23:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your first love...no really gets over their first love they always have a special place for them in their hearts but people do move on...you learn from this relationship and grow into a better person......try and see it as a learning experience and dont worry about comparing guys everyone does it...it becomes a problem when you turn guys away cos they're too different from your first love. Remember that no guy is the same..!
2006-09-22 23:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant get over a guy but you met other great guys talk about wanting your cake and eat it too. You seem into yourself way to much besides what makes you think he wants you back? I mean i wouldnt take back somebody who dumped me twice and i highly doubt that you dumped him i mean for goodness sakes your a blackie with a fro how could you be hot? Your probably really ugly looking for attention best way to do that is get in a circle do an african tribe dance and dance yourself back to africa
2006-09-22 23:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, because of this guy, you are not being fair to the others that have entered your life. If you are sure that you will never be right for one another, then he isn't the one you should be comparing other guys to. It's time to chalk it up as a lesson learned and move on.
2006-09-22 23:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have been going out with other guys, then it is a great start for you. Be happy that at least ur ready to meet those guys. U will get over him...soon. Good luck
2006-09-22 23:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by frozen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun why do yo keep dumping him?
i have the same problem to i keep comparing every woman to the only woman i fell in love with.
and no one has amounted any where close to what she meant to me
it sucks i just need to go to bed later
2006-09-22 23:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,if you belive that you both can make a good relationships in this world then you should forget him and stop comparing with another guys.everbodys has diffrent personalty even they called guys is always guy.
peace
2006-09-22 23:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by feel_the_fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well time heals.....so just give yourself some time....go for a vacation or do anything that u enjoy the most.....u can share your sorrows with frndz..that really helps....and just start thinking of him as "another guy"....give less importance to him and more to yourself and spend some time with yourself ...try to figure out what u actually want.....
2006-09-22 23:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by bhoomika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. Go find that man of your dreams. Leave the past baggage behind you.
2006-09-22 23:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, I can't figure girls like you out...you say you can't quit thinking about this guy, yet you dumped him not once, but twice...WTF?
If he was so great, why didn't you stay with him?
2006-09-22 23:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋