He suprises me so much... one second hes doing something thats so amazing... he knows everything about me and does so much for me... but he doesnt express his loves in words really... he says it now and then when it seems I force it out of him... the thing that is getting me most is he doesnt want to have sex and i want to give myself to him... is there something wrong with me... I know hes done it before and is his excuse "he doesnt want to waste something that important" legitimate... What can i do??
2006-09-22 23:01:33 · 14 answers · asked by luvnorlustn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO grow up !
2006-09-22 23:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by millertime06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going threw the same thing and would like a answer for myself.But his thing is he does tell me he loves me and knows me very well but we hardly have sex.So he is always buying me things or taking me out to eat. And he thinks by doing that he is replacing what he doesnt give me bed.And I'll be lucky if we do it once a month!So I would be happy with what you have now because there are worse once out there!So take care of what you got now and be happy if you guys understand each other and love one another..
2006-09-23 06:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by L.R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really respect u...some men dont say a words that they really love u,but check their action...if they treat u like princess then he liks u.regarding that sex pls...give a little respect 2 urself...let him want u,more dont do that u gonna give urself just to get something....from him(sex)
its not all men wants sex to the girl all the time...
specially wen they have a big respect for the woman they love and care...
gud luck
2006-09-23 06:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be... most probably .. yes..
actually he affraid to express his love. If he is a liar. Then can easily express his love by adding more spice to it.
Think again. Just take a test... its simple
2006-09-23 07:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Best Answer Provider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all you really need to say is "by all means don't waste me, be with me" That should smoke him out of the closet.
2006-09-23 06:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh he is just showing you respect and showing you that he probably sees you more than what sex could be.
he is showing you that he loves you.
just cause someone cares for you and does things for you does not mean it has to lead up to sex.
2006-09-23 06:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question aye um I dont know what to say he will either seem gay or something really special Idont know what advie to give this time... Sorry
2006-09-23 06:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by CoNsTaNt_FaNaTiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, please reason. He is not ready at all. Don't force yourself for him else, he will think you are a cheap. What is wrong with you, there are many men in town waiting for you.
2006-09-23 06:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously hes not the one , its hard for you to see but so clear to us . Hes dishonest, game player , manipulating you , and mainly because hes really gay.
2006-09-23 06:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow.Why are you pushing him into doing something he does not want to do.You will only drive him away.
2006-09-23 06:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get engaged, get married and live happily ever after. :)
2006-09-23 06:06:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋