I am falling in love with a Filipina. We live half a world away. She is in the Philipiines. I met her on a website. I email her everyday & we have agreed to move to the next step, sending each other an accual letter. Should I go to the Philippines & get her? What should I do? I am going crazy about her. I won't be able to go there until next year.
2006-09-22 22:46:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First write, then call.Take is slow.Let it progress naturally.
2006-09-22 22:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see man there are so many fraud on the net. so think , have u called her before, if so, tell her to come to u at her own expense, if not u can tell her u will come and see her, that next year is very good, cause u will be able to tell better within the period of wait,'pls hold Ur balls' and see she will soon ask u for help...money or anything that way u will be able to judge her. but if she is real she will call u, if u could get a number that is not ur number to call u on, the call is going to be often unless it's not her. so try to see the real her before going to her ok
2006-09-22 22:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by diji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll I think you should continue communicating to each other until you will be able to go to the Philippines next year. And besides the secret of a good relationship is communication. And yah I think you should go get her if you think she's all worth it, and besides Filipina's are good lovers.
2006-09-22 22:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey... do you think that she is equally serious if yes, then wh she have'nt taken any step yet. try to find a friends of her friend chain and don't let them know about ur case. Try to identify is the girl is the same what u have dreamed for. Than take the next step.
2006-09-23 00:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by Best Answer Provider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , do not go rushing over there, you have no idea who this women is? You have to be very careful these days. take it to the next step as you put it, and continue writing to each other, have you got Skype ? if not download it and get her to down load it, then you can call each others computers for free and actually have a conversation with each other, these situations can and do work but its hard work indeed. you have to be very careful as does she, take your time, if it is meant to be it will. her is the link for Skype. Its free to download and add her as a contact and then click on her name and hit the green call button. its totally free and you can talk away to your hearts content and start to try to get to know each other.
2006-09-22 22:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It used to be that these pretty cute women used the soldiers to get in the US, in your case could be different; however, at least she's would be trying to get in the US in a legal way.
Do what your heart tells you and what your pocket allows.
You won't know if you made a mistake unless you make it.
2006-09-22 23:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by humm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should meet personally first then decide if it's really something you want.
Bring a friend along on your long trip just in case, if you can afford it. The emotional support will be good on your journey there too.
Don't rush into things, okay?
2006-09-22 22:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet first and then decide whether acutally starting something will be worth it. It's one thing hiding behind a screen and it's another meeting in person
2006-09-22 22:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to say,things are so different over the computer as appose to being in person. there's alot to think about. seems to me maybe you should take this time to think every thing thou b-4 hopping on a plane to go and get her.after all its a romance created by words.
best of luck,keep us posted.
2006-09-22 22:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and you will be happy to meet her.
2006-09-22 22:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by Flavier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋