I have been talking with someone over the phone/aim and managed to fall in love with him. He's twenty and lives across the US. To top it off he has a girlfriend. I have been attratcted to him more than just emotionally and last night we talked about it and ended up cybering (which doesn't seem like a big deal, no?) and we both ended up masturbationg to it. I'm not too sure what I should say to him now, but I don't regret it what so ever. Am I a horrible person for thinking this isn't bad at all?
2006-09-22 22:26:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know what to say to you! People like you are the reason I worry about what the Internet is doing to us. Get real!
2006-09-22 22:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be aware of the idea that for him, it could just be some harmless undetectable fun since you're an online and phone friend. He prob is attracted to you too and his emotions and lust got the better of him.
What did he say when you guys talked about this? That's impt and you should be clear of his stand. Has he any intention of getting serious with you or did he just mumble his way outta that conversation?
Don't let the thrill and good feelings blind you from what might be really happening.
My take is he is just having some fun but he prob won't break off with his current for an online fling.
2006-09-23 05:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not a horrible person for thinking that its not bad at all , ....what is bad is that he has a g/f and using you for cyber sex.......thats what is bad...and you letting it happen...why not find someone that is single and cyber with them....or just get to know them ...when u find a guy who cybers that means they cyber with others too....it be diferent if he would be there and take you out and do things for you not just use u for cyber sex....good luck
2006-09-23 05:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you don't regret it, so why worry about it. Talk to him as a friend the way you always have
2006-09-23 05:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋