i have an affair wid an abusive.over possesive n insecure bf. for d past four n half years.i just wana put an end to the relationship coz now m tired of listening to his harsh words.wen i told i need a break off he was shocked coz he didnt even think dat i will end d relationship as i was so crazy for him n loved him so much.but den he started hitting me also.i know it was my fault n shud have stopped then n there but didnt .but now i dnt have stamina to fite wid him n be wid him..i am going thru a rough phase.he thinks m ditching him n have found a new bf which is not true.he think d promises which i made wid him all were fake n am backing out for no reason.plss help me.
2006-09-22 22:05:35 · 13 answers · asked by twinklemehta_1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just leave this loser, move on and go finish school
2006-09-22 22:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by mary_not_cathy 7 · 8⤊ 1⤋
YOU have a good excuse he's ABUSIVE and your well being is more important.Why did you wait so long if he haven't change by now he's not,get out and regroup yourself and than move on with your life before he ends it.If he threatens you the POLICE would love to hear about.NO one can help or protect you if you don't make the first step and stick to your words,that's not love or a good relationship if he is ABUSIVE in any way physical or verbal.
2006-09-22 23:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by handicute2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you even desire him. what variety of immature dufus is he posting comments on facebook. yet another ingredient you change into abused through year ex so it really is something that would entice you to those variety of adult men? precise. pass back to being a Christian. you should locate an section to to goto Church and are available across straightforward approaches to forgive anybody who's ever damage you.
2016-10-16 01:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be among your friends not boy friends but girl friends. Anytime he calls tell him u are with ur friends. small time his mind will draft off. mind u he will like to know if u are dating another guy, make sure u are plain about u with friends and proof that to him too, and 1 thing don't go to his house as often anymore, maybe one or two times in two weeks. pls do this for a month there will be a big difference. this kind of guys are dangerous.
2006-09-22 22:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by diji 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont think the issue here is hes asking for a reason i think its you're not strong enough to leave him. Get someone who you know has been there before or just get someone not necessarily a girlfriend who is of a strong character she'll give you the strengh n encouragement to do it coz your relationship aint right n dont let anyone justify it (dont except apologies to you deserve better)
2006-09-22 22:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear lady , thanks God you have wake up from the slumber , any way it is not yet late , tell him you are not breaking any promise , he only initiated by hitting and abusing you . Now take a vow and come out from this mad world and restart your life fresh with lot joy / peace and meaningful life yet to witness .
2006-09-22 22:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i had a relationship that resembles yours...i ended feeling stupid, ugly and frustrated, but i understood it's not the case...as i couldn't find my strength to tell him "we're through" we kept break in up for about an year and then i said bye bye cause i couldn't stand the way he made me feel...so find your strength to feel beautiful and you know...you deserve more than that...so break up..if everything fades away you need no reason besides the way you feel about your relationship.
2006-09-22 22:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by pink_0rkid 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well only thing i can tell u is to just leave with out a trace...or if u really love him tellhim to get some counseling...i been there before and counseling helped my b/f....goodluck
2006-09-22 22:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
give him an off and move on
2006-09-22 22:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by Snifer 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dump him kick his *** and move on with life
2006-09-22 22:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋