This is not a question. This is my frustrastration letting out. I had a friend who i considire to be my best friend. We never did anything sexual. I respected her. She had mood swings and i always took the heat. explained to people why she acts that way. We use to have fun together and took things slow. We went on trips together and then she decided to hook up with another guy. I got drunk one night and decided to let her know how i felt about her. I felt it was the right thing to do. She broke my heart... and I promise that it will i never love another human being again. People do nothing but hurt you. The fun always comes to an end until theres nothing left but pain. I dont really give a damn! for people who has nothing good to say..... go eat ****....or better yet, just fall in love.
2006-09-22 21:19:50 · 10 answers · asked by J B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont make a statement that u will regret later. It's not the end of the world.. some people experienced worst thing compared to your experience. You can't have the best of both worlds. just think that she's not worth it. Dont be afraid to love because that's the greatest and worst thing that u could ever feel in this world. In every trials, there's always a lesson learned and u must be thankful that u got hurt. It will make u a stronger person.. There's no gain without pain. Always think positive.. cheer up! GOD bless!
2006-09-22 21:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by ok 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most probably it became one sided and flopped. Being a gentleman, you followed all unwritten ethics in indulging in sexual activities and she on the other side expected it sooner. When it didnt come and you went pretending to be a nice gentleman, she would have thought otherwise!!You both did not read each other well!!!
I understand the pain inside you and the frustration you have but think about it in a different angle than putting the whole blame on her!!!Dont worry, all lovers are not like you or her, you will soon find someone more understanding than her!!No fun in crying over spilt milk, stilll milk from other sources continue to be sweet only, try for it but understand and get understood each other next time!!! All the best!!
2006-09-23 04:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are right at the decision you have made after this. Maybe you may never love another person ever again but........
if someone comes along in your life and falls madly for you instead then you must not repeat what had just happened to you now. You should be understanding towards this person,perhaps give her a chance because if you don't then this innocent person will be on the same list as you are..... never wanting to love another human being ever.
2006-09-23 06:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sap 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats the problem with u guys ! if a girl is nice to u, u take it for granted that she is in love woth u.u knit ur world around her and if she doesnt feel that way for u then she is a vamp.thats the reason y we think twice being friendly with a guy coz in no time u guys fall in love.hulloou..wake up ..she has a heart too and its not necessary that she will love all her male friends.she can love only 1 man and who knows all this while she waited for u to say but u got ur wake up call only when u saw her with another guy.IF U LOVE A GIRL TELL HER STRAIGHT AWAY BEFORE SHE STARTS THINKING THAT U DONT THINK THAT WAY ABOUT HER.u were late and blame urself for that.i have no sympathy for u.
2006-09-23 04:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"'tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all."
Sure, if you let a person into your heart, you run the risk of being hurt, but if you never let anyone get close to you, the price you pay is eternal loneliness. I'd rather take the good with the bad, enjoy the happiness and grow during times of sorrow, than to become a person without any feeling whatsoever.
2006-09-23 04:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel so bad in life many things happen which leave u hurt but if only u loved her and she didn't it is good that it all ended coz u never could be happy together and moreover this means that she is not the one for u . don't feel so bad learn to love again life wouldn't and shouldn't stop with this .life moves on so move with it .
2006-09-23 04:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by pinkchocolatediamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE!!! Broken LOVE!!! don't worry, be happy! There are billions of men like you on this earth, who don't talk anything about their failure in Love... So leave her... Love a person who loves you.
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2006-09-23 04:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-23 04:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a Wussy! Just let it Go.
2006-09-23 04:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow you are a nancy hit her with your purse
2006-09-23 04:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by gary_george48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋