my friend said he'll mail me and all.... but its been week he hasnt... i dont want to nudge him or mail him again asking him y hes has not replied o somethin..... its just that we used to be soo close that i miss him and cry that i dont get any of his msgs any more cuz hes gone to london to study... it was like a daily doze and now ill die if i dont get it any more... i already told him about how i feel that hes leaving in a letter i gave him before he left... and i dont wanna be too nudgy tellin him again and again... im depressed :( cant think of nething else except his memories of the awesome times we've had.... I MISS HIS FUNNY LIL STUPID CONVERSATIONS
:_(
i knw he mite be busy adjusting....but.....
2006-09-22 20:48:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This looks more like a "hard to get" game... the more he delays, the more you want him... Just do not mention anything else in your mails except asking him how he is and hows life there... when you seem cold about everything, naturally he will start thinking about all... Dont sell yourself easily by showering him with all your feelings... Just give him time, and behave like a normal friend... By this, you will learn to get used to the distance and behave normally and also he will get a chance to think about everything... The more you try to hold him back, the more far he will run away... Let him free and he will come back to you!!
2006-09-22 20:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Little Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl snap out of it!!! His out having a great time while getting an education. That boy is seeing things he might not ever get a chance to see again. Your problem is that your insecure that he might not come home or your jealouse that you can't be there too. Right now his having a great time. His seeing LONDON and going out to the Pub's, his going to castles and to Stone Hedge and to Oxford where the famous Oxford Colledge is. To the flee markets, to the CRICKET GAMES. Girl he has got no time to be writing. I lived there for 2 years this is how I know what his doing. He'll write when he stops and realizes that he hasn't heard from you in a while. Just let him be.
2006-09-22 21:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that all hurts a lot and waitng for some is really getting crazirer but try to control ok so whats your story gal do you like him welll if yes full to yes then only you can just send him any forwarded message just to remind him of your email anbd the things you get agreed on if nope then just stop waiting ok it willl come somehow anyday
2006-09-22 20:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life in London is hard, especially, if he is there to study and will have to support himself getting a job there!
It is expansive place and he has more things to handle now then you have!
I was in similar situation as yours and believe me it takes a while for them to get organized and come back.
I feel how you feel but have no doubt, if two of you love each other, he WILL reply.
Your heart is at the right place now but place it in your head for some times!
2006-09-22 21:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 06:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just said it ... he might be busy adjusting.......
anyway .. since you're too close .. it doesn't hurt then to email him and tell him how much u miss him already !..
i had a Friend who couldn't email me for like a month !... but that didn't affect anything !.. because i understand how is it like for him !... try to do the same !... and try to find a new friend.. you cant live alone !
2006-09-22 21:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well! mail me , I assure you that I can do as stupid talks as anyone on earth. Yah! I know I can't mathc your friend, coz he izs the one you like, and I am not even trying to do that, just willing to frustrate sumone with my bakwaas stuff!
2006-09-22 21:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Raj S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just email him again and say hi.
It could also be that he couldn't read your messages because the spelling and language is dreadful.
2006-09-22 20:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question at the end.
He probably is taking time to get adjusted.
Give it a few more days and write him.
2006-09-22 20:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by fixermetal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He told me he was busy and he would call you within a week.
2006-09-22 23:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by gelilio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋