my friend wants to be my friend w/ benifits should i go all the way and lose my cherry?
2006-09-22 20:02:15 · 25 answers · asked by confused?helpplz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. There are some things in life that you will appreciate saving for that special time in your life. The ripe old age of whatever teen you may be, isn't quite there yet.
Relax, any friend that wants to have sex with you, isn't really your friend.
2006-09-22 20:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Panda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to wait until marriage. meanwhile my dear, contemplate if he will make a good, faithful and loving husband. u certainly wouldn't want to go thru all the hassle of fights and divorce. thus don't ever look at sensation of love alone. a good loving relationship is built on mutual love, respect, undertanding couple with a genious love for other ppl who are less fortunate than we do. best wishes.
2006-09-23 04:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, respect yourself. If you have to ask us, you have reservations. Wait until you are absolutely certain that this is the person you will spend your future with, the person you trust with your heart. It will be worth the wait. If your friend is upset, then he's not a very good friend.
2006-09-23 03:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have nothing against consenting adults being 'friends with benefits', but I personally would advise against losing your virginity to one. Remember, you can only give this ONCE, so aim for no regrets.
2006-09-23 03:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by sueflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, keep the cherry and just pull the stem.
2006-09-23 03:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by Neil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah you should. go at it girl and bust that cherry now so when you want to have good sex later it doesnt hurt and isnt uncomfortable. get some girl, you deserve it
2006-09-23 03:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by AndrewT.LEYKIS101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend wants no strings attatched sex. That is not a relationship, it's a booty call.
Don't lose something that is so important to something so shallow.
2006-09-23 03:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's what you want. if not, just say no. is this the way you want to get your cherry popped? wierd, but interesting to know.
2006-09-23 03:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think you should do it because it could ruin you friendship with this person. So just tell him/her not and see how him/her respond to the answer. If they get mad then they just wanted to have sex with you anyways
2006-09-23 03:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way! With friends like him you don't need enemies.
2006-09-23 03:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋