me am working in film and music industry. l work with losts of people . my time to leave work is 5.pm.so sometimes we will be busy l will have to leave around sixpm. so yestarday l left around 6pm. he got angry with me and saying everyday am never late work why must l come late at his shop. he's shop is in the same street were l work and he closes the shop 7pm. so am always there before he close. so yestarday we started talking and l end up leave him in his shop l didn't go home l sletp at work.he nos it busy at work l can not just leave poeple at work .so now l don't even no maybe l should just break it off for good.everyday l work up 5am and leave work 5pm or 6pm, but l always do everything for him in the house not even a single day he will wake up and ask me l wanted to ware this but its dirty. all he dose is to sit eat and sleep. when am at work he thinks am doing something. am 21 and l don't have kids.
2006-09-22 19:40:52 · 14 answers · asked by holy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Slavery was abolished over a hundred years ago in the US. Get out.
2006-09-22 19:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Answergirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if the only time the two of you have is the few hours befor bed and all he wants to do is sit on the couch then you really need to stop and think befor its to late take it from me 25 two kids and a husband of 4 years who is still on the couch this minute
2006-09-23 02:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to clarify your questions and read them once over before you submit them. You may get better answers that way.
But, if you cannot trust a man, maybe you should talk to him about what is going on and if you still cannot trust him you need to realize that trust is one of the most important things within a relationship.
2006-09-23 02:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by souplane21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have some self respect and confidence , just leave him now for your bright and happy future and joyful life . He will use you and throw you out , the moment he will get some other
2006-09-23 02:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like mature and sincere girl. His behaviour is bit rediculous with you. Its better to sit down and discuss his behaviour with him straight forwardly. As a matter of fact he should listen to you, because you talk logic and I am sure you will be able to convince him. Best of luck and take care........
2006-09-23 02:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you feel used and abused, in many ways. So follow your gut and leave this controlling person. You're only 21.
2006-09-23 02:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your question .. is he cheating .. ?! .. no I don't think so ... but for you it seems to be that you don't have this great relationship with this guy !.. i think you should leave him , only after you make sure there's somebody whom you could talk to .. you know ... when you need so !...just don't end up being alone !... and keep up the good work ! :)
2006-09-23 02:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you are not his mother or his maid! let him cook and clean for himself you work just as well as he does! make him cook for you for a change! Are you married to this guy? If not why stay? he wants a 24 hour maid not a mate!
2006-09-23 02:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by cherablkbuttafly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for christ's sake you're onlly 21. move on and find someone else. it doesn't appear that you're happy and he doesn't love you because he treats you bad. you're very young. these are the times when you're learning about relationships and yourself. see if you can find someone who REALLY loves you. even though he tells you he loves you, his actions say something different.
2006-09-23 02:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave now. He is a user, you can do so much better.
2006-09-23 02:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋