Everyone I've asked about this says, "they're exactly the same as any other girl." And I realize that they like to be treated and respected equally. But it's undeniable that people in black culture have different interests and often different personalities, and there is a very large dating barrier between black girls and white guys, much larger than it seems to be between black guys and white girls. I just want to know how to let them know I'm interested without sounding desperate or pathetic.
2006-09-22 19:40:30 · 19 answers · asked by Eric H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no secret to black women. The thing that annoys me about white guys is when they try to imitate black guys. I would date a white man but he would have to be himself. That said, you have to find a black woman who likes you. I really want to stress that we are all different, try to connect with your potential girlfriend on an emotional level, not just "hey I love black girls". I gurantee most black women will steer clear of you. You will seem fetishy. Good luck!
2006-09-22 19:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by anonbealove 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If most white men dated black women there would be a lot more brown people out there than there is now. Maybe some of the reason that in your area that white men prefer black women is simply because of the woman's attitude toward him and not the color of her skin.
2016-03-27 03:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend and allow it to grow into something more. You are right that the barrier is much larger between black girls and guys of other cultures but be a friend........don't just approach it from a romantic point of view.
2006-09-22 20:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go to places that encourage interracial dating, clubs, bars, concerts, etc. Strike up a conversation with someone you feel is your type, and move on from there. I don't know what city you live in, but in new york there seems to be plenty of places. I live in an area of New York where the I am experiencing the reverse of what you are experiencing, though I think I have cold feet, and I Think you do too.
2006-09-22 19:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by LINDA J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get to know them better and the things they like. Become good freinds and then go for what you know. Your rigth, It's way easier for me to talk to a white girl but for a white guy to talk with a black girl? Im not so sure. Make sure when you ask out a black girl spit some game! Don't let her even think about the fact you are white. She will like you so much she won't know the differnfe and be yourself. Be Your self but don't do thighs that are corny!
2006-09-22 19:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you like someone outside your ethnicity then go for it. Being attractive isn't about skin color- it's about character and what you have inside of you. If you are really interested with someone who is black, just get to know her, befriend her and be yourself. But be ready though to accept differences, all of us has those, whether white or black or brown.....
But I appreciate white men like you who do not discriminate people and stereotype races. I hope more and more men will be like you.
We should all go for what lies in the heart not what lies in our skin color....
2006-09-22 19:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by yunesa 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You'd have to act extremely confident for a black girl. They're used to black guys so you'll have to stand out more personality-wise to get them interested.
2006-09-22 19:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Fish Boy 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
be yourself man - you dont want to be anything you're not otherwise your relationship will flop. dont listen to that prick telling you to get a penis enlargement. if love is what you want then love is what you will get. however it might be a good idea to advertise yourself. e.g find out about the kind of event your type of girl goes to and go there! just have fun you know?
2006-09-22 19:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by peaceful bloodshed 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well u need to know that there are some of those girls that wish to talk to you too. so all u need do is find the best one that u know really likes u. And don't waste time to talk to her.
2006-09-22 19:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by diji 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If a girl doesn't accept you for you, whatever color she is, you shouldn't date her. Do not fake who you are to get a girl. Go up and talk to her as you would a green, yellow, pink, or purple girl.
2006-09-22 19:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by souplane21 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋