I think so, I deserve a man who does everything I say
2006-09-22 19:24:44 · 23 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll do whatever you tell me to.
I might need some discipline every once in a while though. . .
2006-09-22 19:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hey Goldie,
I think it is wrong of you to expect your boyfriend to do everything you say to begin with. We as women want to be a stronger and as independent as we can now-a-days but if you take all the decision making away from your man, you will lose him or convert him into what you think you want. The thing is, even though you think you want a man who will do everything you say, you will never be able to respect someone like that... If this person that you are with is not important to you enough to respect him and his wishes at least some of the times then I don't think you should be with him period. We want a man who will stand up for us and respect us and love us right? So how will that be possible if you don't start by respecting him first?
2006-09-23 02:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO!! R U JOKING?? y do u deserve a man who does everything u say? and angelofmusic used a good word "primadona" totally describs what u just wrote. were u spoiled when u were younger? if ur bossy (it really sounds like it) maybe it should be the other way around.
2006-09-23 02:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by explodingmonkee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. if you dont have feelings towars him anymore then you shoudl leave him.but if you do truly love him then stay. So what if he doesnt do everythign you say! neither does my bf. He got a motorcycles. i cried and we fought about how i didnt want him to get it, well he got one then he promised me he'd ride it "once in a blue moon" but its now every day =(. you cant make him listen to you. he is his own person as you are your on person. you do what you please even if your significant other will not be fond or happy about the idea. ive learned to deal with this as you can see lol. i try too at least and not make a bbig deal abotu it! anyways. im sure you wouldnt liek him controlling you and such. do not try to contorl him it will only make him unhappy int he relationship. both of you need to make sacrafices in order to keep your relationship stable. and communication and trust is the most important thing.
good luck, hoep things work out
2006-09-23 02:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great relationships aren't about obeying the other person. Every person deserves a great partner, but that includes compromise, trust, love, honesty, compatibility and being happy together. No body always gets their way on everything and would you really be happy having a boyfriend that is following orders or doing what he wants? THink about it, what means more- ordering yourself flowers or receiving them without notice?
2006-09-23 02:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by wtrmlnqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, wake up and smell the coffee. You don't want a man, you want a spineless jellyfish with a penis. No man is going to just do what you say because you said it. A real man will have thoughts and feelings and won't put up with your twisted deviation from reality. If you're looking for obedience, get a dog!
2006-09-23 02:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, dump him so he can go and find a good woman. What makes you so special that any man should obey you? If wanted you to do everything he said, would you?
2006-09-23 02:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by savvyd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um, you know you dont anyone if you really want a slave then go back to the days before the civil war and you get have someone that will bow to you.
further more everyone is thier own person who in the world do you think you are that one should as you please
that is selfish and degrading to any human its people like you that screw up others.
thinking the world owes you something.
2006-09-23 02:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your boyfriend a favor and dump him, and he will thank you later for the fact that he did not have to spend part of his life with a freakin' dominatrix, who wants to run his life.
2006-09-23 02:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by q127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud dump your bf if he *does everything you say* cuz in that case he is a real bone-head and u need somebody strong enuf to stand up to u
2006-09-23 02:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by bambam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should dump you instead, and i don't think you deserve a good bf
2006-09-23 02:52:27 · answer #11 · answered by diplomat_safe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋