My girl and I had our 3 year anniversary last week - i got her a ring.
at the party - shes with other guys instead of with me - and shes like im busy talking to the guys.
ive checked out her fone and there are sum new numbers on it.
i also checked out her msn - she has like 5 new guys on - definitely not from skool - theyre too old - college guys.
shes suddenly acting very bossy by tellin me not to stay out l8 - i guess thts normal.
shes a lil better now cos she doesnt dress like a slut and covers herself up.
but last week on her email a guy wanted to meet up - she hasnt told me about the guy - shes got him on msn - and she talks to him on the fone - she hasnt told me anything - ive added the guy on msn - to see if she mentions me in their convos. and if hes just a frend - or a random hookup.
what do u guys think? - what should i do?
2006-09-22
19:19:11
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By the way - i am so in love with her - that i cant tell - and plus i let her know everything bout my life - yet she assumes sumtimes that im messing around.
Also weve had similar situations in the past and some of them ended up with me making the wrong decision.
shud i check this **** out with the guy and then do it?? cos sumtimes i just end up making stupid decisions and get screwed over about it.
2006-09-22
19:31:23 ·
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Just live your life dude... don't go probing into such details... you will screw your happiness...
Just take her for a walk and discuss these things... often its jut misunderstandings...
3 years is a long time... to know her... are you sure you know her ?
2006-09-22 19:37:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Strangely enough man, I'm going through the same with my girl as we speak! We've been dating for 5 years and I just found out about this stuff today! Smart choice is to ditch the b***h! If you dont know she'll think she can do it again later! Once a cheater always a cheater! Tell her its over until she can grow up and handle a mature relationship!
2006-09-23 02:23:52
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answered by Brandon A 1
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DUMP HER!!!!!!!! if you're looking for a wife she's not it. are maybe she's not ready to be a wife and this is the only way she can show you. talk to her first see where her head is in this, if she keep on talking to you like that. and being with other guys you will have to move on. lot of girls out there that's looking for a good guy. good luck!
2006-09-23 02:29:25
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answered by Kas-O 7
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Once you are suspicious of your partner, you have to cut bait. Going through life always wondering if she's cheating on you is no way to live.
2006-09-23 02:40:28
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answered by vinny_the_hack 5
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When you gave her a ring, did you think that you then owned her? If you are a suspicious possessive type guy and it sounds like you are, you could drive her away.
2006-09-23 02:26:13
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answered by moekittykitty 7
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Ask her directly whether she likes u or is she interested in any other boy. Explain her about your feelings. Ask her if she no longer loves you, then you would never interfere in her matters.
2006-09-23 02:32:08
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answered by Sonu 2
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Definitely, she is cheating on you. She probably wouldn't even care if you dump her right now.
2006-09-23 02:27:13
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answered by diplomat_safe 2
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"mard ka bachha hai to pooch le"
means if u are a son of hard male then simply ask her.
u will find a lot of girls in this world.go for it.
2006-09-23 02:23:40
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answered by Anonymous
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in a word - yes
2006-09-23 02:28:38
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answered by leos1964 3
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yes
2006-09-23 02:22:06
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answered by Traynor 3
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