i have been dating this girl on and off for a couple years and i really care about her but we have had many fights because she has messed around with different guys nothin real bad so we always end up getting back together but it happened again a few days ago how do you know if she will change or when its time to give up
2006-09-22 19:00:57 · 11 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like she has a problem with some low self esteem and needs some counseling regarding her behaviour if she wants to change.. but she's not going to change because you want her too, only if she decides she's sick of her behavior and wants something more in life.. like a guy who really cares about her...
2006-09-22 19:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by someone s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it. She probably won't change because that's who she is, and if you are unable to accept her for who she is then perhaps the two of you are not right for each other. You seem to be the kind of guy that deserves a girl that you shouldn't have to wonder if she'll change at all. Take your time in thinking about this, but I would recommend looking elsewhere and finding another girl that is worthy of your love. Obviously her messing around with other guys doesn't exemplify her commitment to you.
2006-09-22 19:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anythinggoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man Ive had the same thing happen to me its your story all over again and I broke up with her even though I cared about her alot and to tell you the truth I still think of her all the time now so my advice would be give it a little while longer if she dont stop then its time to leave
good luck
2006-09-22 19:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by bearcat_basketballfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I were in an abusive relationship before, bodily and mentally, and that i used to ask your self about the different women he changed into with to, extremely one time I instructed the female he changed into with that he used to hit me and lock me interior the domicile, she did not pay interest to me, properly a short at the same time as later he changed into doing her an analogous way, she finally were given out, yet I in many circumstances ask your self about the different lady he may get with. i think like as women we desire to guard one yet another and warn one yet another if all of us understand a guy has severe subject matters. So it truly is as a lot as you on in case you enable her understand or no longer. Now i'm married to a brilliant guy, and it truly would not difficulty me as a lot because it did before that he may be abusing yet another lady.
2016-11-23 16:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you like the fact that she messes around with other guys, I don't see why you end up with her. Does she even know that you like her? She won't change unless she truly loves someone.
2006-09-22 19:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we don't know either of you so your the only one that can decide that, but also you have to think about her age, how many guy's she's been with before she got with you, and if nothing really bad happened maybe she's just a flirt.The main thing is, is she being faithful to you, and does she really love you? and do you really love her?
2006-09-22 19:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by brigette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fighting a losing battle. If she wanted to change, she would have done so the first time you split up.
2006-09-22 19:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't want to go steady, she's not hiding it from you. Just go out if you want a good time and don't plan any farther than that.
2006-09-22 19:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, move on. She's been with "other guys".
I would hate to catch what "they" have...
It's not going to be something you can be cured from.
Don't waste your time or your life.
2006-09-22 19:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's cheating..you should know the answer to this already.
2006-09-22 19:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋