I have a friend of mine that I fall for every time I see her. She is however 4 years younger than me. Is it wrong to ask her out on a date?
2006-09-22 18:45:09 · 29 answers · asked by Stevio 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are between the ages of 18 and 21, then it is WRONG. (As well as illegal.)
2006-09-22 18:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Vicki70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Well, it depends on what age you are at. If you're fourteen and you like a ten year old, then that doesn't work. But eight years later when she's 18 and you're 22, it seems a little better. I set the mark at 7 years older or younger than you as being appropriate.
2006-09-22 18:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No to these ages together! 14 & 10, 15 & 11, 16 & 12, 17 & 13,
18 & 14, 19 & 15, 20 & 16 (If your ages fall in this catagory - absolutely not!)
Maybe okay 21 & 17
Okay 22 & 18 and above that
2006-09-22 18:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on both of your ages. If you are 30 and she is 26 then no. If you are 25 and she is 21 no. If you are 19 and she is 15 then yes. That can get you jailed.
2006-09-22 18:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by BONNI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age. If you are 18 and she is 14 then maybe it's wrong. If you're 24 and she's 20.....Well she still can't hang out in the same places you can so it can be a burden. Over those ages should be ok.
2006-09-22 18:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by jazine_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. My spouse is 4 years younger than me, and it has worked out quite well so far. Age is only and issue in two cases - with minors and adults, and if you make it an issue. Ask her out!
BTW? Best friends make the best spouses.
2006-09-22 18:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age. Unless she is over 18, 4 years is too much difference.
2006-09-22 18:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 16....boyfriends 20....so i would have to say no its not wrong to like someone 4 years older than you.
2006-09-22 18:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong as long as she is of legal age. 18 and/or over. Minors can get you in a load of trouble. It's a big plus if she also digs you, then asking her out should be of no problem.
Like NIKE would always say," JUST DO IT !!!"
2006-09-22 18:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by nodiggity_1357 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on the ages of you both to be able to give you any kind of real advise and its always great to have a friend and let time tell you the rest.
2006-09-22 18:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by BE THERE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only in the event of you being over 18 and her being under 18, then yes, there is a problem....If you are both underage or both underage.....go for it..My husband is four years older than I am and we are doing just fine.
2006-09-22 18:48:57 · answer #11 · answered by kjkisinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋