So this guy I am absolutely obbsessed with, let's call him Arthem, told me he had a girlfriend. i said "Oh, crap i wanted u to ask me to the homecoming dance." i was really depressed then he asked me to go with him. What should I do? Is it wrong? Because i REALLY like him.
2006-09-22 18:29:22 · 9 answers · asked by Snow White Queen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were his girlfriend and he went to a dance with another girl who was absolutely obsessed with him, would you consider it cheating?
It's cheating.
2006-09-22 18:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not cheating. But he might be. On the other hand, perhaps they're just friends, and are not actually an item. Or maybe they broke up. I'd suggest you ask him to clarify his statement about having a girlfriend. Once that's resolved, then maybe you can stop questioning what you should do. You'll feel more comfortable, if you actually know his situation.
2006-09-23 01:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not the one cheating its him, well, this is my 2 cents, but I wouldve taken my gf to the homecoming dance not some other girl. Not trying to sound mean just saying..
2006-09-23 01:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by agentmike45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not in your part, but the guy you want to take has a girl. So he will be cheating on her.
2006-09-23 01:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by cassie05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
makes me ponder...
put ur self in his gf shoes.. how would u feel about ur boyfriend takin another girl?
another thing... it all depends how look you have known him
a good guy friend of mine in hs... took me after i told him he was the only way i was gonna go.. he had a gf.. but her and i were cool and she couldnt have came anyhow.. bc she didnt attend our school, we went as friends and left as friends too.
2006-09-23 01:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Diamonds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.... well not as long as you two keep your game faces on, on the dance floor... it also depends on what your intensions are with each other.
2006-09-23 01:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Willy F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. He might be trying to use you to get back at his girl for something stupid she did and I don't want you to get hurt..
2006-09-23 01:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by ~***Holly***~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a dance... no harm at all.
2006-09-23 01:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by pro163 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not. now if u do something, then yeah, thats crossing the line.
2006-09-23 01:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋