Ok so Ive been "almost" on and off relationship with this girl. Right now we are like broken up, broken up lol. When we would break up, we'd still flirt alot and kiss on the cheeks and stuff...but now that she likes someone, she barely even talks to me. I know the first thing everyone's going to say is to get over her or move on. Thats the thing, I just cant. Ive tried but I just cant stop loving her, shes everything I ever wanted in this world. Just want to know what to do... :(
2006-09-22 18:22:49 · 19 answers · asked by agentmike45 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her go and find someone to meet or something to do. You will find that she is not the whole world for you. As a guy, don't be that weak. She loves another guy and doesn't want to love you anymore then fine, that is her choice. If you keep thinking like that or you show to her that she is your whole world, then she will think that she has a high pride then you will have a hard time with her. Just find things that could cheer you up !
2006-09-22 18:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ngoc L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take my word on this one. The earliest ones are always the hardest to get over no matter the level of seriousness in the relationship. Once you have your heart shattered early on, you will be much more resistant to pain. The message here obviously is to move on, but don't think for a minute that this person is any more special than the next awesome girl you will meet. Stay positive!
2006-09-23 01:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Rckets 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time it did for me, but i dealed with it and found someone else. are you sure there isnt someone else in the world. if not then you have to take the first move on her, talk to her, tell her what you did over the weekend and maybe you'll get her back or someone else will fall in your arms whenever your not looking, it'll just take some time
2006-09-23 01:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry-Bomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that is sooo sad! =( i no what u r going through. id say if u really loved her, ud want her to b happy, so let her b happy! if she likes u she will come to u, if she doesnt, well then she likes someone else, and let her because u do want her to b happy. also im sure u will find someone else u like
2006-09-23 01:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by 2Cute2bTrue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to remeber why you guys broke up in the first place. There had to be a reason. If you really care about her then you need to talk to her.
2006-09-23 01:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry you are feeling this way... it takes time for a broken heart to heal.. .but my first suggestion is not to talk to her or flirt until you are totally over her... you need time to heal and that won't help your healing process..... keep yourself involved in activities and etc,,,,, good luck... you will be fine
2006-09-23 01:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say tell her your true feelings for her and whisper it in her ear and to add even more meaning to it give her the most pastionate kiss you could ever give someone!! give it a try it could work!!
2006-09-23 01:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mater_rocks!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with someone else.
If anything as soon as she sees you're taken she might change her mind. People are weird that way.
2006-09-23 01:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u can tell the whole world what u feel, then tell her. Hope ur love life goes well!!! :)
2006-09-23 01:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by Waz Up? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you still love her,tell her.The sooner the better.If she still has feelings for that other guy then so be it.if you love her,would you want her to be happy?
2006-09-23 01:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by Richelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋