Wow, kudos to you for being such a responsible man! You're doing the right thing (obviously you know that, right) by keeping your focus on supporting your family. But, may I suggest that you try and hang out with friends more? Even if you have a busy schedule try to find SOME time to do things after work with guy friends. It will help boost your morale (because it sounds like you're down on yourself), and give you a much needed break from your tough reality. Then, when you're out with friends try to meet some women who have some substance. Maybe the ones you're meeting are only concerned about what you can provide THEM with. Those are not the right ones for you. And, whenever you do have a girlfriend try to do the same for her, which is set aside some time for her. When you're in a relationship the other person does require a certain amount of your time and companionship. You be the judge of how much that is. Nice and understanding women wouldn't be that concerned with your family situation. Best of luck to you! =)
2006-09-22 18:10:15
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answered by it's me! 6
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Not all girls are out just for money. However, if a girl is looking for a serious relationship, she is going to be concerned if her man is going to be able to help provide for HER. And I don't mean providing for all her SHALLOW needs like adding to her 27 pairs of shoes or getting her hair done every week. If she is serious and mature, she is going to be interested because she likes YOU and how you treat her.
Have you ever wondered if you've been approaching the wrong TYPE of girls. Perhaps the type of people we think are what we want aren't necessarily what's best for us, ya know? You aren't a loser and you will find a decent girl. Just don't sell yourself short.
2006-09-23 01:10:06
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answered by janab712003 3
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Be confident in yourself. You are very worthy of a good woman, you just need to find the woman who is worthy of you. You take care of your family and you have been working hard since you were a young man. That is what women in your age group want, but they may be concerned if you put everything into your family and nothing into yourself though. You have to balance that out and you will be fine.
2006-09-23 01:09:57
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answered by Lady G 2
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Move. Change of surroundings may perk you up. Youre still young and Im surprised you cant find single people to hang with. Send out resumes to companies in areas you might be interested in relocating to.
2006-09-23 01:07:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, totally. The way to fix it would be to actually ask a girl out. Your not a loser and there are other people that know that as well.
2006-09-23 01:07:29
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answered by Banana Peels... 2
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it's true that a lot of girls are superficial, but the only girl who deserves your heart is the one who's willing to look inside of it.
don't worry
_she'll come along. ;)
2006-09-23 01:07:40
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answered by monica80 3
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dont worry.. you'll find that special someone too... not all girls are up to a man's wealth... just like me!!! what i'm looking for is the inside!!! seriously!!!
2006-09-23 01:06:07
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answered by o0psi3 2
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