I know I love this guy I'm real good friends with at work( we're baggers at a grocery store) we hanged out once, watched a Flyers play off game at his house and I had the time of my life. I feel sparks fly everytime I am around him and that he's perfect 4 me. I know I love him as a friend and I know that I want to be with him and like him alot but I dunno if I am in love, I feel that I'd be head over heals in love with him if we got to spend more time together outside of work but he's got a ton of stuff going on right now that he needs 2 take care of first. I love him so much that jus being around him is heaven. I could go on and on about him. I want to know what signs to love out 4 if I am falling in love with him and what signs 2 c if he loves me back( he might as a friend, I know he likes, cares n respects me as a person, thinks I'm fun to be with) and I feel we have a special friendship unlike anyone else at work. I look 4ward 2 all of your answers. I am 24, he's 20 know 4 a year
2006-09-22 17:38:52 · 9 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move slow and take you time, let him move toward you or you might scare him off. a long term relationship takes time.
2006-09-22 17:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah's Grandpa 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like infatuation to me. How can you love him without truly knowing him. You have only been with him once out of work. I think you might be more in love with the idea of him: In love with the who you would like him to be. Get to know him with an objective mind and don't look at him with "rose colored glasses". Love is work. Sure it feels great sometimes but not all the time. For instance, in a family relationship you have great and happy times and difficult times. Love is when you are there through and after the difficult times. It is easy to be in love when things are good. You pass the true love test when you suffer emotional lows as a couple and you are still there to encourage eachother and to lift eachother up after the crisis. Having said that you know your situation better than anyone else and eventually you will make that decision for yourself. I do hope I have been able to add perspective to your situation. Enjoy life but take it one step at a time. You are both young. No need to rush into anything
2006-09-22 18:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by LC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know, when everything else this person is doing is not important to them then being around you as well. It is a wait an see thing, be patient and do not be overly pushy, let nature take its course so you will not be up set, be cool and take it easy
2006-09-22 17:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you seem pretty much in love.
I couldn't eat, barely slept, my heart stopped whenever his name was even mentioned. I spent a great deal of time in fantasyland, wondering about him.
Looks like you've got a chance to make this happen; go for it!
2006-09-22 17:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not the thing to show,it just happens...
if u both care for each other,help,understand & most importantly try to develop each other for being perfect for each other then you r in love....
and best friend often face problems like you.......
2006-09-22 17:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Don 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you, yourself, will be the only one to know if you're in love.... people loves somebody in different ways and different feelings... so if you feel you're in love, you might be, and you might not be in love... just find some time alone and analyze about your feelings towards this person...
2006-09-22 17:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by o0psi3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to hold onto something, 'cause you have this feeling that is going to float you away. i've experienced it. it didn't turn out so great.
best of luck<3.
2006-09-22 17:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by :)<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a certian feeling... you will know trust me! Its a gut thing.
2006-09-22 17:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ice Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you feel like you're walking on air when that certain someone is around, butterflies in stomach..
2006-09-22 17:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by lil bit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋